It's hard to say,

But bad people never think your children are small.

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"'men will not be sexually assaulted',

When I told people about it,

Some people say so. "

Recently, a scandal broke out in a technical school that a male teacher repeatedly threatened and sexually assaulted male students. After the public security organs successfully arrested immoral teachers, public opinion pushed the incident to the top of the hot search list.

Under the oppression of public opinion, the response given by the school is surprising. This response is full of perfunctory and indifferent attitude. "The school hopes to handle it privately and compensate the children for their mental losses." Without an afterword, parents decided to go through judicial procedures to get justice for their children.

Even in such a serious situation, some netizens still maliciously commented on this matter.

"Ha ha laughs me to death."

"The pen is ready."

"Oh, my God, male teachers and students."

And with a joke-like dog head expression behind the comment, this situation can not help but make people feel chilling.

But when I look back on many cases of female sexual assault, everyone looks at the incident with a serious attitude and hatred.

But why now? I can't help wondering in my heart, "Is it not sexual assault for a man to be sexually assaulted?"

The appearance of social unhealthy phenomena makes us realize people's cognitive defects and gives us an opportunity to make up for the loopholes. It is urgent for parents to popularize sex education for their children.

When the society opens its heart to the spread of sex education, it accepts him and gives him full recognition.

It not only means that this is only the ideological progress of the society, but also brings good benefits, that is, the sexually assaulted child is bathed in the warm sun of healthy growth again, and the victim's heart will once again fully recognize himself as "I am not wrong" and "I am not dirty", which also makes the child who is about to fall into the wolf's den find the confidence to break free and resist.

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? "I apologize for his breaking in."

? -Fang Siqi's Paradise of First Love

Lin, a writer in Taiwan Province, wrote the book Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise based on her experiences with many victims. This sentence she wrote tells the unspeakable pain of many victims.

I thought of those children again. Their hearts will always be like a small garden full of wild daisies and swaying green bristlegrass, beautiful and fragile. Mad dogs will trespass and destroy, and purity will disappear and never return.

The so-called topic of sex education, we have never discussed the incident itself in front of a single gender, and both men and women should pay attention to it and face it squarely. What is presented to us are all cases exposed to light and justice, and how many unknown people are living in a damp and cramped corner.

This reminds me of the story my teacher told me the day before yesterday:

"A female college student in a university was unfortunately drugged and raped when she went to a bar with her friends. In order not to attract people's attention, schools and parents should not defile their reputations. So the school negotiated with parents privately and only compensated for mental losses. There is no alarm processing. After this incident, the girls were psychologically distorted and obsessed with the pleasure of being raped. They entered the bar many times and became the prey of the bad guys. Perhaps they could not accept themselves psychologically. One day, Xiao Ah hanged himself in an empty dormitory, and when he was discovered, it had become a pool of black water. "

The inner pain of the victims stems more from their resistance to what they think is dirty, that is, they can't reconcile and can't accept it. Under the pressure of double contradictions, they have collapsed several times, just like a balloon that is easy to burst without puncturing.

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Let's go back to the case of male sexual assault in the incident. They all have the same experience and face the same situation. Why not look at it with the same eyes?

I'm afraid people have never really paid attention to sex, just as Fang Siqi wrote in "Paradise of First Love", "What is sex education for people who need sex? Isn't education like this? "

In fact, sex education is a compulsory course in life, not limited to men, women, adults or children. Treating every victim equally is the most basic help of onlookers.

Come out, don't hide in the dark corner and sob; Go out, go back to the warm sunshine and feel the temperature of the sun again. We are all in the same world, and we listen carefully to every broken heart.

I believe that in the near future, people in modern society will no longer avoid talking about the topic of "sex", and the society will re-examine "sex".

If you are experiencing it, look on coldly and stand up bravely, okay? Don't let self-esteem sew on your mouth, the world is still there, the beautiful angel is still there, and someone always accepts and understands.

"Even if you are black and blue, you have no home."

"Shame and punishment should be borne by the real wicked."

? -Medusa Manor

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