While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about their children, communicate with their children, nannies and teachers, and try to fully grasp their children's performance in school and family. Because more understanding will lead to less misunderstanding. In this way, once the child is disobedient, then you can understand how to guide the child.

Second, absorb educational knowledge.

Our society is constantly changing, and the environment in which children grow up is also constantly changing, so parents' educational relaxation should also be continuously improved. As parents, we must actively absorb new educational knowledge.

Most of the traditional education we know is to educate children with the authority of parents. Of course, the main authoritative education is swearing. We should all know that the more you swear at adolescent children, the more counterproductive it is. Absorbing new educational methods can help parents jump out of their own growth experience and change their teaching in time.

Third, listen to the children patiently.

If it is the kind of parents who are flustered, they will often swear and educate their children when they always don't listen to the housekeeper. At this point, Solo College advises parents to calm down first, try to be patient and ask their children why.

When parents' mind has been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that many of their behaviors are excusable and will also release their negative emotions. Fourth, really put down your body. Many parents always maintain their dignity in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude. For the special advice of Solo College, I hope that parents can put down their bodies and respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and give them the same respect as adults. Don't always say "no" to children in life, let them choose and make their own decisions. If the child is old enough and there is no problem with the child's expressive ability, then the child can also come up with solutions and alternatives to the problem. V. Reasoning with children In addition to the warnings in daily life, parents should also need to teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let children have empathy, know how to stand from the perspective of others, and truly understand what impact their actions will have on others. As for the way of reasoning, we should choose the depth of explanation according to the age of the child. If the child is not very old, then it should be done in a finished way.