Sex education method
1, see the picture to preach
Children are fun by nature and are interested in things with patterns. Parents may wish to make good use of their children's psychological characteristics to teach. When telling children fairy tales, ask small questions and then explain the knowledge to them. Isn't this a good educational method? I believe this method will soon arouse children's curiosity. After all, children love to ask why everything when they are young, so they might as well take the opportunity to teach.
2. Instill sexual knowledge in play.
When a child is playing with a friend and wants to ask you questions, you can take the opportunity to tell him the reason and the corresponding sexual knowledge. For example, when your child asks you why your neighbor's little sister can't go to the ladies' room by herself, you can tell your child the gender difference.
3. Throughout daily life.
Because sex education in China is still a rare course in school, parents should pay attention to sex education for their children and use family life to tell them some related knowledge, such as telling their children the names of reproductive organs when taking a shower.
Step 4 have a friendly conversation
Parents should give full consideration to their children's psychology when conducting sex education. They don't like the education method of serious preaching. Parents can communicate with their children by talking and playing friends. This method is more acceptable to children.
5. Smile and ask questions.
Parents should grasp their children's first sexual problem, which has a very important impact on their future views on sex. For sexual questions, parents should smile and answer positively. If there is a question that is difficult to answer at the moment, tell the child the correct answer as soon as possible after consulting the information, and get in touch with the child's sexual curiosity and ambiguity.
Matters needing attention in the process of sex education
1, don't avoid children's sexual problems.
Children are full of curiosity and ignorance about sex since childhood, which prompted them to ask their parents a question. If parents avoid their children's questions, they will subconsciously think that his questions embarrass their parents, so they will not ask such questions again. Sexology research has found that every child can distinguish sex under the guidance of his parents at an early age. Although he doesn't understand why he wants to distinguish each other, he has a certain degree of avoidance and distance to the opposite sex. Therefore, when a child asks you any questions related to sex, he often makes great decisions. At this time, you must not flatly refuse, thinking that this should not be a question asked by the child, or taking care of him, which will only aggravate the child's confusion.
2. Read more books and enrich your sexual knowledge.
In order to avoid the situation that children don't know how to answer their own questions, they can take time to supplement some sexual knowledge in peacetime. Of course, when explaining problems to children, try to avoid using dialects. At the same time as you pay, children will gain more knowledge. Why not? Although sex science involves a wide range of subjects, it is impossible for everyone to become an expert in this field, but it is not necessary to dabble in as much knowledge as possible. Don't try to escape just because you don't understand. You should know that sex education guidance plays an important role in the healthy growth of children.
Don't worry about the scale of sex education.
Many parents will worry that when instilling sexual knowledge into their children, what they should know beyond this age will have an impact on their development. In fact, children's mastery of knowledge is also gradual. Even if parents have too much sexual knowledge, children may not be able to master it. So parents don't have to worry. Every age group asks different questions. Once understood, children will never trace back to the source like scientists. Children aged three or four may be satisfied with the answer that "babies grow like seeds in their mothers' stomachs"; Occasionally masturbating to a 13-or 14-year-old boy will not cause serious harm to his body, but it will definitely calm his restless heart. He may not ask you about masturbation again.
How to conduct sex education
1, answer the question.
The age of three to seven is the time when children have the most sexual problems, and they may involuntarily ask questions in their hearts. In this case, it is best to provide appropriate answers in words that children can understand. For example, a child of three or four years old asks you, "How did I get out?" Sometimes, you can tell him, "Mom gave birth". For children aged three or four, this answer is enough to meet their needs. If you are a child over five years old, you can say, "There is an exit between mom's legs, and the baby comes out from this exit."
Step 2 seize the opportunity
For example, when a child is playing a doctor-patient game, the plot happens to be a little boy checking a little girl's vagina. You can ask him in a very calm tone: "What are you playing?" "Is it fun?" "Did you check anything wrong?" Then find an opportunity to tell your child the difference between the sexes and the reason why you can't touch other people's private parts at will.
3. Personal consultation
When the child has abnormal behavior (such as touching his sex organs frequently), communicate with him privately to avoid unnecessary trouble to the child.
Step 4 adopt a scientific name
When answering children's sexual questions, we should use more academic names, such as sexual intercourse, vagina, penis, etc., instead of making love, screwing around or doing bad things, so as not to make children mistakenly think that sex is filthy.
5. Make good use of teaching materials
Some sexual problems are difficult to explain clearly in spoken English. I suggest you use books, pictures and videos as teaching materials.