There are two reasons why mothers have no effect on their children's education: First, the children's talents are insufficient, and mothers expect too much from their children. Second, in the process of educating their children, mothers simply use the wrong methods.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. Family is a child's first school, and mother is also a child's first teacher. In the process of educating children, mothers should pay more attention to the actual situation of their children, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, and be neither too strict nor too fond of them. Only the correct educational methods can educate good children.

First, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, starting from the actual situation of children, each child's intelligence level and natural ability are different, some children are very different, and some children are very different, so there are two differences between ordinary people and prodigies. As far as gifted children are concerned, mothers should advocate cultivating children's self-discipline and modesty and pay attention to their character development. In the face of ordinary children, mothers should give priority to education, supplemented by encouragement, and must not encourage, otherwise it will only be counterproductive. In the face of children with different talents, mothers should appropriately change the educational model and methods instead of mechanically imposing them. After all, only the education method suitable for children is the best.

Second, the education of love and serious education go hand in hand. Overindulgence and demanding of children's education are also the reasons for the failure of mother's education. Too much doting on children will, to a great extent, lead to the deviation of children's personality, too dependent on others, not independent enough, and unable to handle their own problems or emergencies perfectly. Excessive criticism of children may cause children's rebellious psychology, children become grumpy, learn to resist their parents, and parents can only do nothing. So the mother should be there when educating the children? Love? With what? Shirley. To find a measure, only appropriate encouragement, criticism and punishment are more conducive to children's growth and development.

When educating children, mothers should always pay attention to the variability of children's education methods, not the same. Every child is different, and in the process of education, the educational methods suitable for them should also be different.