In fact, this kind of education often produces "Xiong Haizi".
Because parents are children's first teachers, many habitual children will imitate learning and follow in their parents' footsteps.
However, parents have lived all their lives, and there is still some life experience. However, if parents don't work hard and place their hopes on the next generation, such seeds will be planted in their children's inner world.
Moreover, because parents don't work hard, children don't pay attention to life experience, so they will resist and rebel, resulting in children never listening to their parents' teaching.
Therefore, if you want to teach children well, you must first put your mind right.
This point has been truly reflected in "Big Dyeing House".
As a commercial masterpiece, Big Dyeing Workshop is never tired of reading, and it also gives people a lot of enlightenment.
Although this work mainly tells the legendary story of Chen Shouting from a beggar boy to a tycoon, although the main line is him, many details in the story are memorable.
For example, Lu's vision, he knew that children needed knowledge, learning and seeing different worlds, so he sent his child Lu Jiaju abroad to study, but studying abroad required a lot of money, so Lu had been working hard from the beginning to enrich his knowledge and accumulate wealth, so that he sent Lu Jiaju abroad, under that social background at that time.
When talking about cooperation with Chen Shouting, I never looked down on the illiterate "Little Six", but took a fancy to his ability and courage and sincerely appreciated "Little Six".
His thoughts and ideas were also passed on to his child Lu Jiaju.
In the play, Chen Shouting also said that the person he admired most in his life was Lao Lu.
Brother Liu takes this sentence as his motto and has been practicing it.
For his partner Lu Jiaju, he often talks about his father.
He said: My father once said that first-class people don't have to teach, second-class people teach with words, and third-class people teach with sticks.
Chen Shouting and Lu Jia run a dry dyeing factory in partnership, and Lu Jia pays 60% of the capital, accounting for 40% of the shares. At that time, Chen Shouting was still young and vigorous, and he contributed 40% of the shares himself, accounting for 60% of the shares.
Later, during the partnership between Ka Kui and Brother Liu, Ka Kui kept giving in. He never strives for anything, but he knows his weight, so Brother Liu scolds him. He listened and did as his sixth brother suggested.
Why did Master Lu agree to such a division? Because he knew that Chen Shouting's ability was worthwhile. Why does Ka Kui always struggle in the factory? Because he knows where his ability lies.
Therefore, Chen Shouting's evaluation of Lu Jiaju is two words: indisputable.
It is precisely because of Lu Jia's mentality that Chen Shouting tried to manage the dyeing factory well; It is precisely because of Lu's education mode that Lu Jiaju is willing to listen to his father's thoughts and opinions.
If it is someone else, it is estimated that few people can cooperate with people of Chen Shouting's character. For example, brothers, even Miao Ge, will be unhappy.
Nowadays, in the minds of many parents, it doesn't matter that I am worthless, as long as the children are promising, but it is not.
For example, in the article "It's hard to have a baby in a cold door", those people mentioned have different attitudes towards society because of their different parents.
The children of university professors are lofty, and the pattern of children from rural areas is small. Among them, Xiao Pang is the child who listens to his parents most, because he thinks his father can manage dozens of people under his command, so he must have experience and listen to him.
And those parents who only want their children to succeed and don't work hard, although their children are capable and self-motivated, rarely listen to their parents. Because they think their parents are such bears, what's the use of reasoning?
So on the issue of educating children, I think many TV plays, articles, movies, etc. It has given us a deep inspiration and a great influence.
If you don't work hard, why should you let your children become talents?
Therefore, if you want to teach children well, you must start from yourself. You may not have a lot of money, and you are not a local leader, but it is necessary to set a good example for your children.
For example, for the sake of quality of life, don't just stick to your own acre, go out more, get to know more people, get in touch with more things, feel more about life, and let children feel the same way.
At the same time, when you are old and can't walk, tell your children about your life experience in those days. You can tell death instead of telling a story all your life.