Parents are the greatest fate of children, and children are the future dependence of parents. I am not afraid of making mistakes on the road of education. As long as I correct it in time, I can get back on track. Don't wait until I finally hurt my child and make myself a sad parent.

Ten years later, it was these four parents who lived the saddest life. If there is you, please correct it as soon as possible.

Many parents have worked hard to raise their children all their lives, but their old age is miserable. The reason is that there are problems in the process of educating children.

1 Su Ming Jade, the parents of the TV series Everything is Fine, grew up in a patriarchal family. Mother sold Mingyu's room in order to send her eldest son to study abroad. The second son is going to travel. Mother took out 2000 yuan without hesitation. Mingyu wants a review material, and her mother is reluctant to buy it for her.

Mingyu was rejected by her mother since she was a child, but no one in her family wanted to protect her.

After Yu Ming broke up with her family, she became a strong woman in the workplace by her own efforts, while her second brother, who was most loved by her mother, was like a child who didn't grow up and accomplished nothing.

Cultivate your daughter as an enemy and your son as a "mother-in-law". Even if Su Mu didn't die young, she wouldn't be too happy in her later years.

"Raising children to prevent old age" and "marrying a woman and splashing water" are common sayings in life, all of which embody the idea of giving preference to boys.

Many parents keep saying that they don't need their daughters to wait on them, but they are seriously ill in the hospital bed, and most of them are still taken care of by their daughters. Many old people feel sick: it is better to have a daughter! Regardless of boys and girls, since they have become other people's parents, they should do their duty, love their daughters more, and don't suffer!

2 Difficult parents Last year, Song Dandan took his son Batu to a reality show. In the program, Song Dandan always disliked his son. Seeing Huawei cooking breakfast, Song Dandan immediately spit out his son: "Why are you so stupid? I can't do anything. I gave birth to a waste. "

When Batu made a fire to cook eggs, Song Dandan laughed at his son's clumsiness and complained that soot stained his face. Even when eating, Song Dandan did not forget to say that his son had eaten too much. You are the last person to eat too much.

Judging from Batu's performance, his cynicism towards Song Dandan should be used to it. But getting used to it doesn't mean you won't get hurt anymore. Irony and ugly words, no matter how long you listen to them, will not weaken your lethality.

Many parents sneer at their children under the guise of love, euphemistically calling it "cracking down on education". How can you be so stupid that you can't do such a simple problem! Are you a pig brain? How did I give birth to a loser like you! Don't flatter yourself, you still look so ugly!

Many parents don't know that these casual words are likely to become a sword and go deep into their children's hearts. Children who grow up under the attack of their parents for a long time will become sensitive and inferior and complain to their parents. When he grows up and becomes independent, it will be difficult for him to get close to his parents. "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June." Talking well with children is a compulsory course for parents.

3 doting on parents Two years ago, the news that Yang deliberately poisoned his parents to cheat insurance shocked many people. Yang is the only son in the family. He was loved by his parents since childhood and has never been wronged.

After graduating from college, Yang suffered setbacks in his work and was psychologically distorted. In order to make a lot of money as soon as possible, he tried to poison his parents and defraud the insurance company for compensation. On the day of the incident, Yang invited his parents to eat at home and mixed the highly toxic substances prepared in advance into beef.

While eating, Yang kept putting beef into his parents' bowls, but parents who love their children too much could not bear to eat it. In the face of parents' love, Yang did not think about repentance, but also mixed toxic substances into the water, watching his parents drink it and watching them struggle painfully. Yang stood by without taking any measures.

After a few minutes, the parents stopped struggling, and Yang opened the gas tank to create a gas poisoning scene.

I'm afraid the two old people can't believe it until they die: they have worked hard to train their children all their lives and will personally send them to the wall.

The "baiwenhang" is not cultivated in a day, but is fed up with the doting of parents every day. Spoiling is a poison that hurts not only children but also parents.

4 Parents who often beat and scold their children In a column of mediating family disputes, an elderly parent accused his daughter of being very unfilial and rarely came back to see them after graduation. In the past two years, they didn't even come back. They only put some money into their accounts during holidays. They cried bitterly on the show and accused their daughter of being a "baiwenhang".

Later, the program invited her daughter to the scene, and she explained why she didn't go to see her parents.

It turns out that the couple abused their daughter from an early age, and when they were in junior high school, their parents slapped her in the face of outsiders. No matter what occasion, her parents can call and scold whenever they want, and never leave her any face.

The daughter who grew up in this environment is very painful and self-abased. When she was a child, she secretly vowed that when she grew up and made money, she would get rid of this family completely. After graduation, she found a job in other places, in order not to see her parents often.

Although at the end of the program, my daughter promised to visit her parents often in the future. But the inner estrangement for many years cannot be eliminated in a few words.