The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the hardest in the world. The two became family members because of a man. It is said to be a family, but the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are more wise and measured because they are not related by blood and have no feelings of raising. Many mother-in-law thinks she is an old man and the "mother" of her daughter-in-law, and feels that she has the right to teach her daughter-in-law. A mother-in-law who thinks like this is the chief culprit in promoting the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Does the mother-in-law have the right to teach her daughter-in-law? The words of a 7-year-old child hit the nail on the head. Don't play dumb between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I still remember when I was not married, my mother once taught my brother a lesson and showed it to my 7-year-old nephew. My little nephew said to my mother, "Grandma, you can teach my father a lesson, but you can never teach my mother a lesson. Because my mother was not born to me. " At that time, I didn't think what my little nephew said made sense. However, after I got married, I heard a lot about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I realized that the essence of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was said by a 7-year-old boy. The 7-year-old boy knew the truth, but many mother-in-law could not understand it.

A mother-in-law is not qualified to teach her daughter-in-law to give birth to and raise her son. If she is dissatisfied with her son or dislikes her, no one will say anything. Even if many mothers say bad things, sons don't hold grudges, and mother and son fight each other. After a while, it may be the godfather's fault. However, the daughter-in-law is not born to her mother-in-law. She has never eaten a grain of rice or a penny from her mother-in-law's house since she was a child. Daughter-in-law has become what she is now because of the cultivation and upbringing of her parents. My mother-in-law is completely ready-made. I might as well ask her where she got the confidence and face to teach her daughter-in-law. Some mother-in-law feel that a daughter-in-law is a member of her family when she marries her own. I began to show the power of my mother-in-law, and I didn't like my son making things difficult everywhere and often finding fault. But also disrespectful to the old man, relying on his age, he beat his daughter-in-law everywhere to teach his daughter-in-law. If the daughter-in-law is out of respect and doesn't care, and she is humble again and again, the mother-in-law can only be insatiable. It must be remembered that a daughter-in-law is neither born nor raised by her mother-in-law, so she is not qualified to teach her. What's your problem with his son?

Confusion between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the biggest disaster for a family. After her son got married, many mother-in-law had no sense of boundaries. I always feel that my son is mine and my daughter-in-law has to manipulate it herself. Therefore, after the son got married, he was reluctant to let go, interfering with his son's small family everywhere and taking care of everything. You need to show your authority and leadership as a mother-in-law everywhere. You have never learned to respect the habits and methods of young people. Even when young couples have conflicts, many mother-in-law need to intervene, and stand on their son's side for better or worse. This kind of mother-in-law will not only fail to deal with contradictions, but will also become bigger contradictions. Sometimes it is a contradiction between husband and wife. If a mother-in-law who has no idea intervenes, it will become a contradiction in the family, and then the family will be restless.