How to educate a rebellious 8-year-old girl? ? The 8-year-old child is in the second rebellious period of his life, and it is normal to show disobedience. On the one hand, rebellious children may be very disgusted with their parents' orders, on the other hand, they may be parents' demands. Be reasonable and don't force children to do things they don't want to do. As parents, the treatment of disobedience should be divided into different situations: if it is a common problem, it can be done according to the child's wishes, otherwise too many restrictions will inhibit the child's natural development; For safety and behavior problems, we should give him rules and pay attention to principles, so that he can know what he can't do and what the consequences are. Disciplining him is not to make him not make mistakes, but to let him know that he is responsible for his actions.

? How to educate a rebellious 8-year-old girl? 1. Learn to respect children and communicate with them equally. As parents, we should understand the heart of children's growth, respect their growth, respect their independence, put down their bodies and start to communicate with them on an equal footing. Let children participate in some things at home and make decisions together. For example, if you want to buy expensive items at home, you can ask your children for advice; For example, if you want to arrange a family trip, you can ask your children what they think. Let children feel that their parents respect them and respect their importance as family members.

2. Learn to give children positive praise and encouragement. Parents' affirmation is the best and most effective support for children, so parents should pay attention to it and give their children more timely and positive praise and encouragement. Increase children's self-confidence and self-identity. At the same time, pay attention to discipline in front of others, start to pay attention to saving face for children, protect children's self-esteem, and don't choose words improperly.

3. Teach children the truth. When a child makes a mistake or behaves rudely, don't punish him immediately, but teach him to pay attention to his behavior in a friendly tone. ? "Your finished toys should not be thrown around. Please put them where they should be next time. Your toy shelf is the home of toys. Finished toys should go back to their own homes, just like you. If you're finished outside, I'll leave you on the street and won't let you go home. What do you say? "

Parents should use smart methods to guide rebellious children, and don't use tough methods such as beating and accusing. If the child is in a rebellious period, there will be more problems. What's more, parents are not only worried about their rebellious children, but also anxious. Sometimes, I can't help blaming or scolding my children. Then I regretted it. Here, I want to remind parents that if their children grow up to seven or eight years old and become rebellious, parents must guide them skillfully. Parents should not worry about their children's minor problems because of their rebellion.