Japan's famous saying of educating children: Except air and sunshine are the gifts of nature, everything else can be obtained through labor.
This shows how important it is to cultivate children's self-reliance ability from an early age. It is like the cornerstone under the Great Wall; It is the spiritual food of life; Is the premise of foothold in society. ...
In the process of growing up, we should not only learn to be independent, but also develop good habits and moral qualities, which, like cultivating children's ability to stand on their own feet, cannot be separated from parents' teaching and guiding attitude.
For the sake of our children, it is worthwhile for us to be parents. But we should not only make them adults, but also make them successful. The key lies in how we educate our children with practical actions. Therefore, for us parents, the difficulty lies in our ability.
There is a story: a scholar came to visit the professor's house. The professor and his grandson were riding a big horse when he visited. Coincidentally, as soon as the scholar saw it, there was an awkward atmosphere in the room. The little grandson hid quietly in the room, listening to their conversation curiously. "Hey, I just made you laugh. In fact, I am experiencing a speech on "How can I resist" physically and mentally, so …… "Ha ha ha ha ……" The awkward atmosphere suddenly drifted to the outside of the cloud nine. At this time, the little grandson's heart was branded with a shadow Since then, he cheated and lost everyone's trust. ...
It is conceivable that what parents say and do has a great influence on their children! It is related to the child's life and future. I must be strict with myself for the sake of my children. The fate of the child is in my hands. How can I not be careful?
Yes, the phrase "don't do housework" keeps children away from the kitchen, and when they grow up, they ignore housework and lead an unhappy life; The phrase "don't mind other people's business" makes children become taciturn and heartless; The phrase "I support you" makes children bold, make waves, bully the weak and fear the hard.
Many children always complain that their parents treat them as children. As a mother, I know this is love, but excessive love is equal to doting. Spoil is not love, but hurt. Let go moderately, let the children get out of the "warmth", soar in their own sky and advance in their own world.