Today, with the development of the Internet, as a full-time mother in the new era, I am very concerned about the education and development of my children. I will also actively and consciously learn some parenting knowledge, such as paying attention to the official account of WeChat, an education expert or scholar, and joining a parenting mother exchange group. In the whole process of raising and educating children, I often read some articles about raising chicken soup for children. Tell me about my own feelings.

Most of these chicken soups are ideas and directions for educating children, and they are generally positive. It has given us great inspiration and help in educating children. A few examples, such as "How to praise children correctly", "Gentle and firm principle", "Listening to children's verbosity" and "Consultation and communication" are all very good and detailed concrete practices, which are very practical and valuable, and have also achieved good results in educating children. It is true that every child is unique and independent, and it is impossible to educate according to the model. Therefore, in the process of educating children, I will choose and use them according to their characteristics and family environment, adjust and improve them in time, and comprehensively use and add some of my own means.

However, some people say that these chicken soups are written to attract people's attention, and the people who write chicken soups may not really have actual combat experience, which is not practical and credible. What I want to say is that it's not that the experts' educational ideas and learning methods are wrong, but that some parents have made the contents of these chicken soup one-sided and extreme. For example, it is not advisable to regard Xiong Haizi's uncultured as "releasing his nature" and his lack of ideals and goals as "happy education". My understanding of "happy education" is to learn in a peaceful and happy atmosphere, so that children can learn without coercion and repression. "Don't make a hullabaloo about" may not be effective at that time, but for parents, it is really effective to calm down and communicate with their children, and the long-term effect is a virtuous circle. Parents should not deny those excellent educational ideas and methods because of the deviation and unsatisfactory results in the implementation process.

Therefore, parenting education is actually a process of fighting with children. As long as it is used properly, I still believe that these "chicken soup for raising children" will make us and our children better and better.