What are the topics of communication between parents and children?
1. What shortcomings do you think mom and dad have?
2. Is there anything that makes you sad?
3. Which book do you like best recently?
4. What would you do if I gave you 20 yuan money?
5. If you have magic, what do you want to change?
6. What do you think you need to correct?
7. In what way do you want our home to change?
8. When giving a gift to a child, ask him first and guess what's inside.
9. What is the food you don't like today?
10. If you travel, where do you want to go?
1 1. What's your favorite motto?
12, what is your wish?
13. What's interesting today?
14, what do you hope to find tomorrow?
Who do you like best? Parents, classmates, teachers, etc. )
16, what's your favorite food today?
17. If you were asked to call someone now, who would you call?
18, tell me something about you that I don't know!
19, what do you want mom and dad to do for you? Why?
20. How did you treat your parents when you grew up?
What are the ways parents educate their children? 1. Parents should listen carefully to their children's thoughts.
Whether children make mistakes or have conflicts with their parents, there are reasons for them to do so. Sometimes children are not intentional, but inexperienced, or think differently from adults. The teacher thinks that instead of yelling at the children, it is better to calm down and talk with them and let them express their ideas. It is easier for parents to be listeners than exhorters.
2. Parents should put down their bodies and negotiate with their children.
Many parents think that they are elders and have the majesty of parents in front of their children, so they are used to giving orders to their children, often with an overbearing attitude that children must listen to themselves, but such a gesture will make children feel distant, which not only affects the parent-child relationship, but also is not conducive to their growth. The teacher suggested that the correct way for parents is to put down their posture, communicate and negotiate with their children as friends, and show respect to their children.
3. Parents create opportunities for their children to "eat their own fruit"
Sometimes, no matter how much you beat and scold, children don't realize the seriousness of the problem. Instead, I feel that my parents are having a hard time with themselves. This kind of education will not only fail to achieve results, but also make it more difficult for children to manage. The teacher's point of view is that parents can create opportunities for their children to experience the consequences of doing something wrong on the premise of ensuring that their children are safe enough and will not have realistic consequences. When children experience it firsthand, they will know the cost of making mistakes.