The rebellious period of a three-year-old child is the first rebellious period in life, when the child has learned to listen and speak. Therefore, at this time, parents need to understand their children's psychological characteristics and adjust their educational methods in time, including respecting and understanding children, cultivating awareness of rules, cultivating concentration and imagination, cultivating awareness of independence and setting a good example.

1. Respect and understand children: three-year-old children have their own way of thinking. They usually cry when they can't achieve their goals. Parents need to control their emotions, respect and understand their children, don't impose their ideas on their children, and don't beat and scold their children, otherwise it will be counterproductive. In addition, parents are busy with their work and pay little attention to their children, and children may take the rebellious way in their parents' eyes and get attention. At this time, parents should respect and understand their children, spend more time with their children at ordinary times, increase the time of parent-child interaction, tell stories to their children before going to bed at night, encourage them and communicate with them more, thus promoting their trust in their parents and their language and emotional expression, including the cultivation of emotional intelligence;

2. Cultivate awareness of rules: three-year-old children are rebellious. If it's a matter of principle, don't spoil your children blindly. At this time, parents need to unify standards, listen to their children's thoughts patiently, and tell them what is wrong and the right way to cultivate their sense of responsibility. In addition, three-year-old children have strong imitation ability, so they need parents to set an example, guide them correctly, cultivate their awareness of rules and develop good living habits;

3. Cultivate concentration and imagination: Three-year-old children may be more focused on a toy or other things. If there is no question of principle, parents can let their children do it. In addition, you can show three-year-old children more picture books that help to enhance their language and reading ability, cultivate their imagination and concentration, and avoid being interrupted and hindered all the time;

4. Cultivate a sense of independence: If the rebellion of a three-year-old child shows separation anxiety and is unwilling to go to kindergarten, it is necessary to avoid doting on the child and not helping the child complete everything. Give children some physical exercise, usually take them to outdoor activities, or do indoor sports properly, communicate with children of the same age and cultivate their sense of independence;

5. Set an example: Teenagers' rebellious psychology will be influenced by surrounding environmental factors, and guardians should set an example by taking the lead and guide them in a positive direction.