After that, whenever the child does something wrong, he will go to the "dependent", which may be his father or his grandparents. Of course, every family is different.
The so-called growth of children is based on family education. If you want to educate your children into people with correct ideas, you must first grasp the role of "positioning" in the family, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
? Living apart from the elders is the best way to solve the fundamental problem. If you want to live together and have no children, there will be contradictions. The concepts and living habits of the older generation are very different from ours. Friction is certain, and it will also arouse contradictions in the unsatisfactory life.
Even if you don't live with your parents and live with friends, there will be contradictions in your living habits, but your peers will be more likely to integrate. If we live with our parents, their interference is inevitable, because they have doubts about our way of life, which is normal.
Nowadays, no matter whether young people buy things or eat and drink, their elders will not be particularly used to it. They buy and consume in large quantities and don't know how to be frugal. There is a gap in education between their children.
Therefore, if you can live apart, you should never be together. Take care of your children if you have the ability and time, and don't bother your elders. But if there is really no way, try to integrate, or discuss with your husband and let him guide your parents.
2.？ Communicate with children
A good way of education will certainly make children listen to their own words, communicate with them seriously about right and wrong, let them know clearly how much grandparents love them, and tell them what to do in the future. In addition, husband and wife must reach an agreed goal.
On the issue of educating children, husband and wife should have a common understanding. In this family, we should keep the same voice, communicate well where the child did something wrong, and tell her the correct way and idea, and finally achieve a good child.
abstract
There is always a "black and white" face at home. Everyone treats children in different ways and has different ideas. Therefore, in the face of some things, it is best to communicate in time. When the child is noisy, let the child know that this is wrong. In the face of the doting of elders, we should also communicate well.