According to family background statistics, among the students admitted to 985 school, the proportion of one or both parents being teachers ranks in the top three. Therefore, it is not true that it is difficult for teachers to teach children well.

So the question is changed to: "Why do most teachers educate their children better than ordinary parents, but some teachers find it difficult to teach their children well?" It might be more appropriate.

First, psychological contrast effect.

A good man has done a good thing all his life, but when he is old, he has done a bad thing, and it is easy to be considered a hypocrite;

Bad people have done bad things all their lives, and when they are old, they have done a good thing. It is easy for everyone to think that the prodigal son will return and the gold will not be exchanged;

Parents who have raised their children for half their lives quarrel with their children, which is easily considered rude by children;

When strangers are occasionally kind to children, children are greatly moved and think that strangers are better than their parents;

All the above are caused by psychological contrast, that is, if it is always white and suddenly turns black, it will be very noticeable and unacceptable.

Similarly, we think teachers should teach their children well. If they don't teach well, they will be impressed and unacceptable.

In fact, looking back, we know that there are many teachers in life, but there are not a few teachers who can't teach children well.

It's just that it's easy to become a topic of discussion. Bad news travels fast and it's easy to become a consensus.

Second, the influence of doctors not treating themselves.

China always said, "Doctors don't treat themselves, calculators don't test themselves." There is no other reason, and "caring is chaotic."

Not only Chinese medicine, but also western medicine. Many skilled surgeons are unwilling and unable to operate on their families.

The same is true for teachers to educate children, and it is easy to "care about chaos."

This "concern" does not mean the kind of courtesy and superficial emotion in sympathy and concern. It is a kind of "concern about one's own core interests", which will greatly affect the teacher's own emotional fluctuations.

At present, there is an educational methodology in China, which is essentially a step-by-step exam-oriented training.

Some teachers can act rationally according to methodology when educating other children.

If other children learn well and don't learn well, the teacher will try to help them, but they won't be completely substituted and can't control their emotions.

The children in my family are different. They can only learn well, but not well. Teachers will spare no effort. Such excessive control often leads to haste makes waste and the effect is not good. At this time, some teachers will go to the top like ordinary parents, become emotional and anxious, and finally enter a vicious circle.

Third, there are other reasons.

1. Some teachers are too busy and stressed to take care of their children.

2. Some teachers are incompetent. They can't teach not only their own children, but also other children.

3. Others and so on

To sum up briefly:

In fact, teachers are human beings, and they also have feelings and emotions. If they care, they will be confused, so there must be teachers who can't teach their children well.

However, most teachers are still better than ordinary parents in educating their children. After all, they have gone through professional study and long-term practice.

It is definitely not a universal law that teachers can't teach children well. Don't draw wrong conclusions because of psychological contrast effect.