A young man is waiting for a date with his lover in that beautiful village. Because young people have no patience, they come too early and wait anxiously. He has no interest in enjoying the bright sunshine, charming spring scenery and delicate flowers. Impatient and restless, he kept walking up and down the land.

Just when he was extremely anxious, an old man with a white beard appeared in front of him. The old man stroked his beard and smiled and said to him, "Young man, I know how you feel now. You must be very sad. You are worried about waiting, aren't you? "

The young man looked at the old man with white beard doubtfully and said, "Is there any way to get rid of my troubles and stop waiting?"

The old man with white beard said, "Of course, you can sew this button on your clothes. When you have to wait, just turn this button to the right, and you will realize your wish, so that you will no longer be tortured by waiting, and you can go as far as you want. "

The young man happily took the button from the old man and held it tightly in his hand. He wanted to verify whether the old man's words were true, so he tried to turn the button: he was thinking of letting his lover appear in front of him. When he opened his eyes, his lover was already standing in front of him, still winking at him! The young man was secretly happy. He thought how happy it would be if the wedding could be held now!

He turned again: a grand wedding appeared in front of him. At a sumptuous banquet, he sat side by side with his lover, surrounded by guests, congratulating them. He looked up and saw his wife looking at him affectionately. He thought, if only we were alone now!

He turned the button again: the wish came true again.

Young people have endless wishes: I want a villa. After turning the button, a luxurious and beautiful villa appeared in front of him. Looking intently, two servants came out of the villa to meet him. I need a few more children, he thought silently, and gently turned a button: the sun and the moon flies, and suddenly there are groups of children.

He has everything. One day, he stood at the window and looked into the distance. He saw a group of young people playing on the grass, full of energy. He walked to the mirror, where he was obviously old and listless.

From then on, he buried the button deeply in the ground and never wanted to turn it again. He went to the window and looked back, then he realized that waiting was a pleasure. Life is more delicious because of waiting. How much he wants to go back to the past, to the moment when he waited for his lover. However, there is nothing I can do now. This is just a dream. I'm getting old now. Thought of here, the young man suddenly woke up from his dream and sweat oozed from his forehead. He looked up and saw his lover standing in front of him, smiling at him slightly. The sun is bright, the birds are still singing beautifully, and the flowers around him are still so charming. At this point, all his anxiety vanished and he quietly enjoyed everything around him.

Knowing how to wait can make a boring life interesting; Knowing how to wait can get the favor of a happy life; Knowing how to wait can keep the beauty around you. He who knows how to wait is a wise man who knows how to live.

Understand the philosophy of life

Life is made up of fragmented fragments, and it is these fragments that make up a colorful picture of life, and these fragments do not pop up at once, but are obtained after people wait patiently. Without waiting, life will lose its original luster.

Don't let abuse hurt you.

Once, two strangers met on a trip. One of them is a businessman and the other is an intellectual. Intellectuals always dislike businessmen and think that all businessmen are treacherous and cunning people. Therefore, whenever businessmen and intellectuals travel together, intellectuals will abuse businessmen with vicious language in an attempt to anger them. However, when it is used on businessmen, it doesn't work at all. Instead of being angry, the businessmen seem to be very good. This day, the two of them came to a fork in the road. Because they are going to different places, they have to go their separate ways. Before leaving, the businessman politely said to the intellectuals, "May I ask you a question?" The intellectual nodded his head.

The businessman continued: "If someone gives you a gift and you refuse to accept it, who should the ultimate owner of the gift belong to?"

The intellectual replied, "You don't have to ask such a question. I think your brain is blocked by money. You'd better use all your knowledge as soon as possible! " If the other party doesn't accept it, of course it still belongs to the giver. "

The businessman looked up at the sky and said with a smile, "That's right. If I don't accept your abuse, aren't you cursing yourself? "

After listening to the businessman's words, the intellectuals were flushed with shame, and their glib words were no longer effective. After talking for a long time, I chose to escape in shame without saying a word.

Many times, people will hold their breath in the face of weak abuse, or refute or punch each other, and finally both lose. Think about it. What's the point? Instead of worrying about these things, it is better to relax and take those boring gossip and insults from uneducated people as a kind of scenery for you to enjoy.

Understand the philosophy of life

There is no need to let gossip hurt us, because those rude rumors don't actually exist, but they are just fabricated by people with moral corruption and illiteracy. Therefore, we don't need to worry about it.