In family education, many parents regard strict discipline as a kind of responsibility and concern for their children, saying, "You will understand later that we are doing this for your own good!" It is said that the control over children is extremely strict. This rude treatment hides some kind of harm, or scolds, or beats or insults, which is disrespectful to children, does not conform to the law of children's physical and mental development, and even does not conform to human nature. They have no education at all, but they are extremely destructive. Frankly speaking, it is a kind of "sin" for parents to be too strict with their children and discipline them too strictly.

In recent years, we can often see some reports of "tiger mother" and "wolf father" from the media, all of which are promoting the "brilliant achievements" of this harsh education method for young children by parents. Excessive parenting style is regarded as traditional education in China, which not only traps some confused parents, but also hurts a large number of children.

1, too strict family education leads to sensory integration disorder in children.

Many parents interfere too much with their children. They should give their children opinions and suggestions in everything, so that they can be completely controlled by their own guidance. It seems that only in this way can they do good deeds. However, this kind of interference is very unfavorable to children, which will cause children's inattention and make it difficult to do something continuously. We often say "what kind of parents bring out what kind of children", and the parenting style is very important for the development of children's sensory integration ability. While trying to obey the rules, children's creativity has also been obliterated. In addition, when everything is required, children's initiative will be greatly reduced and their sense of responsibility will be lacking.

2. Too strict family education will lead to children's depression.

Many parents treat their children with strict education methods, and parents can't help but reprimand their children for some bad performances. After a long time, children will become more and more timid, afraid of this and that, especially when they are exposed to some new things, they will involuntarily meet their parents first. Why? Because of fear of parental reprimand, such children will be a little depressed after a long time. We say that often reprimanding and denying children and not letting them make choices can easily aggravate children's depression and inferiority complex towards sensitive introverted children, and even lead to depression.

3. Too strict family education will lead to extreme violence of children.

This kind of violence is rarely directed at outsiders, but more at the closest people. For example, parents, such as grandparents, grandparents, are the best proof of this.