2. Compassion: Adults should care about the elderly, patients and people in trouble, and care for small animals. Children can also be infected and resonate.
3. Cheerfulness: Adults should be lively and cheerful when expressing their feelings, love and desires, and be enthusiastic about others. They are naturally generous when they talk, sing and perform programs. They are not afraid of embarrassment and never humiliate their children. They don't treat children as toys and jokes. In this way, the child's subconscious is also lively and cheerful, and he can freely express his thoughts and feelings, and cultivate the spirit that the child can freely express his true self.
4. Rational love: After the baby is 8 months old, parents should show their love moderately, be calm and concentrate on doing their own thing. Show seriousness, indifference or dissatisfaction with children's unreasonable demands and deviant behaviors. In this way, the thin subconscious will distinguish right from wrong, gradually understand the laws of life, and learn to control themselves. Self-control is a very important subconscious, which needs to be built as soon as possible.
5. Curiosity: Adults should be curious, ask questions and discuss with each other, and often take children to observe things, explore the world and know everything. This will make children see more, touch more and ask more questions, and cultivate a subconscious mind of discovery and thinking.
6. Enthusiasm: Parents are enthusiastic about people, things, hospitality and making friends, and they are busy with work. They can also see the subconscious mind of children being hospitable, making friends and doing things seriously.
7. Focus: Parents' serious and focused attitude will impress their children. The expression of concentration is very touching. Madame Curie once said that when she was a child, she saw her father carefully take out the experimental equipment from the cupboard every day, quietly do internal experiments, carefully scrub the equipment after finishing, and then put it neatly in the cupboard ... It is these expressions and actions that laid her love for experimental physics. Madame Curie's parents are middle school physics teachers.
8. Love of books: Mastering visual language tools to read and using these tools to think and acquire knowledge is one of the most important basic qualities of people. Parents must love books, take their children to buy books, and set up bookcases for their children ... in this way, books will enter the child's subconscious and benefit for life. Judging from the current general situation of society, we call for "turning off the TV and opening up our lives and books"! )
9. Brave: Adults should be brave in front of children, and insist on exercising if they are not afraid of the cold; Not afraid of getting sick, taking medicine and injections; Not afraid of bugs, not afraid of darkness, not afraid of ghosts; Not afraid of difficulties in study, work and life. The strong behavior and expression of parents can enter the child's subconscious and become the child's courage and confidence.
10. Creation: Parents, kindergarten teachers and other relatives should often do experiments, such as blowing soap bubbles, how to blow bigger and float higher; How to make kites more beautiful and fly farther; How to plant crops to make them more lush and fruitful; How to throw the ball more accurately and hit a higher rate; Origami plane, how to fold more vividly and beautifully; How to decorate the room more beautifully and orderly ... let creativity enter the family and children's lives and take root in his subconscious, then the children love creativity all their lives and are willing to innovate everything. This quality is the most needed in our national character.