In our family, there are many "nanny mothers", "bonzi mothers" and "slave mothers". In particular, more and more only-child mothers are either eager for success, ignoring the laws of education and memorizing; Either the stars hold the moon and spoil it; Either parents have limited educational level and know that their children are not good at learning, but they can't help. With the improvement of material living standards, there are more and more mothers. They or they have suffered, holding a kind of psychological compensation, and meeting the material requirements of their children at will; Or live a rich life, dote on children in every way, especially in terms of money, spoil children at will and pay attention to material enjoyment. A mother is not only a child's first teacher, but also a lifelong teacher. In family education, mother's education is irreplaceable by anyone. The survey of successful people shows that mothers have the greatest influence on their life development. Similarly, the investigation of prisoners also shows that it is the mother who has the greatest influence on their lifelong crimes.