Positive behavior is recognized.
Acknowledge and respond to any positive behavior, even if it is very small; If you look for good things in children without prejudice, you will find some.
Avoid negative language.
Avoid frequent use of negative language, such as "Don't stop" and "No".
Distinguish children from their bad habits.
Distinguish the children's bad habits from the children themselves. For example, you can say to your child, "I like you, but I don't like your disobedience."
Make a clear timetable.
Make a very clear timetable for your child. Make a timetable for getting up, eating, playing, watching TV and sleeping. Stick to the schedule, but be flexible if the child doesn't. After a period of time, your schedule will become your child's own habit.
Patiently teach new knowledge
When you teach him something new, you should be patient, explain it simply and clearly, and repeat your requirements frequently.
Leave your own space for your child.
Try to leave a space for children in the room, avoid decorating with bright and strong colors, and keep the room simple and tidy. Put the desk under an empty wall without interference, which is good for children to concentrate.
Do one thing at a time.
Do one thing at a time. Put the toys in a box with a cover. Give him only one toy at a time. If the child is drawing or reading, you should turn off the radio or TV. Multiple stimuli will make him unable to concentrate.
Give children responsibility
In the process of children's growth, it is very important to give them certain responsibilities. The task entrusted to him should be within his power. Once he has completed the task, he should admit and praise it even if it is not satisfactory.
Supervise the children's activities
Only one friend is allowed to go home to play at a time. You should be responsible for supervising their activities.
Never pamper your children too much.
Don't pity, laugh at or indulge your children too much, and don't be intimidated by them. He will learn well eventually.