The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.
2. Reasoning with children. In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others.
As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.
3. complain less and be considerate. At this stage, children are still learning knowledge at school and have not yet entered the society. It is not easy to say how much money you have earned in front of children, which will cause children to be bored and have more resistance.
4. Don't quarrel in front of children. There will inevitably be differences of opinion between parents, and there will inevitably be quarrels, especially in front of children, who can't help quarreling or even fighting. Children are the period when world outlook, outlook on life and values are formed.
Setting such a bad example in front of children is not conducive to their growth. Maybe they will think that such a quarrel is inevitable, which leads to disharmony in a family.
5. Observe more and guide them with modern education mode. Because now they understand that beating and cursing can't educate these children well. It is necessary to observe their rebellious performance, so as to give them careful guidance and tell them the seriousness, otherwise it will have a great impact on their later lives.
6. Learn to listen. In the process of communicating with children, parents should learn to listen and let children express their bad ideas, bad emotions and grievances. Give some understanding when the child expresses, and then give some guidance and help.
Don't rush to give instructions or help that you think is beneficial to your child, listen patiently, let your child express his emotions freely, and let him feel that you understand and agree with him very much.
7. Communicate with teachers more. Children study at school most of the time, and spend more time at school than at home. Teachers know children best and judge their state by their grades, so it is much more effective to call the teacher to ask about the situation than to figure it out for themselves.
8. Spend more time with your children during the rebellious period. In this extraordinary period, do more activities with children, such as playing ball games, swinging, visiting parks, going out for an outing, participating in social activities and visiting museums. Exercise their physique, broaden their horizons and open their minds.
9. Don't spoil and spoil bad children from childhood. Give the child whatever he wants, and give it when he cries. This gives the child a wayward attitude. You may lose control in the future. Set rules for children. Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.
10, set an example. Parents are the children's first teachers, who will accompany them all their lives. The growth of children is largely the result of parents' education. Ask the children to do it, and do it yourself first. For example, a promise is a promise.