Before an ancient woman got married, her mother would secretly slip a book to her daughter for her to read privately. The reason why it was secretly banned was because it was not aboveboard, because this book said that men and women lived together. The purpose is to let women know about sleeping with their future husbands before they get married. Let women be psychologically prepared, and at the same time, staying in the bridal chamber will not make a joke. In ancient times, things between men and women were extremely difficult to talk about, even for their own mothers, they would choose the way of secretly stuffing books.

In ancient feudal society, women were confined to their homes, so it was restless to appear in public. The only men who can be contacted are family, father, brother, etc. Even other male relatives rarely meet. A woman of high rank can also learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, while an ordinary woman can only be a woman without talent and virtue. However, whether it is the daughter of a powerful person or ordinary people, when they reach marriageable age, it is up to their parents to make decisions, find a good family and choose a good day to get married.

Before a woman gets married, don't say that she can't do what she wants, and even she can't see her future husband. It can be said that I really gambled on marriage by luck. There is no opportunity to cultivate feelings, and there is no opportunity to adapt to accept each other. Moreover, in ancient times, women knew nothing about men and women, even adults, because feudal society thought men and women were extremely private, and anyone discussing men and women in broad daylight was filthy and would cause gossip. Therefore, women don't know anything about sleeping with men and women before they get married.

Until the wedding day, the mother of the bride-to-be will secretly give her daughter a book describing men and women sharing a room. This is to teach her daughter about men and women and let her know what role it is to be a wife on the night before marriage. It is also at this time that women become real adults, enter another stage of life and become future wives and mothers.