The most important occupation of a man is running a family.
A father's best love for his children is to love his mother.
Loving his wife is the most serious thing for a father.
Your attitude towards your wife hides the future of your children.
1. The wife in the father's mouth is the mother in the child's heart.
Some time ago, there was such a Weibo that spread widely among mothers, and many people were deeply moved by it.
After six o'clock, chatting with a married friend. Her daughter went to kindergarten at the age of four. Yesterday, she wanted to help her daughter bathe. Her daughter said no, because "mom's stomach is so scary." She gave birth to a baby by caesarean section, and when she recovered, the wound was not healed, which was more conspicuous.
It's nothing at all. The problem is that her husband is holding the child and jokingly said casually, "Did you hear that?" Even my daughter thinks you are ugly. "
The friend immediately got angry and asked her husband loudly, "What do you mean?"
The husband looked innocent and said, "I'm not interested, am I?"
"Do you think the scar on my stomach is ugly?"
"I didn't say it. Your daughter said that. This is just a joke. What are you angry about? "
The friend was even more angry, saying that her husband had a problem with his attitude and his voice was loud, which made her daughter cry.
The husband said, "Are you sick? You scared the child to cry! " "
Friends feel distressed when they see their daughter crying, so they are ready to endure it until the child sleeps and then tell her husband. Unexpectedly, my daughter cried and said, "Mom is so scary, mom is crazy ..."
If a friend is struck by lightning, ask the child who studies this. The husband protects his daughter, saying that she scares her daughter and the child can't tell the truth?
Finally, the daughter said that it was her father who told her grandmother, "xxx is simply a crazy woman with a big temper and a thief."
My friend immediately cried, left home with his mobile phone and found a hotel to stay.
She was angry at her husband's attitude and even sadder at her children's words.
A father who doesn't like his mother hurts not only the feelings between husband and wife, but also the image of his mother in the eyes of his children. How can a mother who is afraid of her children teach them well?
When a mother doesn't get the respect she deserves in a family, children will despise her in their hearts and even look down on her. After that, her words will not play a binding role in front of the children.
2. Dad's love is the backing of educating children.
When I was in primary school, my mother was almost 50.
Every time it rains, it's my least favorite time. Because there is no canteen in the school, I go home for dinner at noon. As soon as it rains, everyone's mother sends meals to school.
I am embarrassed to see other people's mothers young and beautiful. I'm afraid to see my mother standing at the door of the classroom looking at me in outdated old clothes.
It rained that day, and my mother was still wearing that flowered shirt, and her hair was wet by the rain. The rain ran down the wrinkles on her face, which was embarrassing. She stood at the door of the classroom and called me. Everyone's eyes make me want to escape in shame.
When I came home from school, I got up my courage and told my mother not to send me meals next time and not to yell at me at the classroom door. Mom hesitated, her eyes flashed a light clearly, but she tried to smile.
This incident was later known by my father. He scolded me loudly: "Your mother owes you a meal in the rain, but she is afraid that you will be hungry and get soaked.". She is not young and beautiful now. When she was born, she was old and risky. If I had known that she had no conscience, she would not have been born! "
This is the worst impression my father gave me. Staring at my eyes and blushing always reminds me that I am so scared that I dare not "dislike" my mother anymore.
Under the influence of my father, my sister and I learned to help my mother with housework since childhood, and we are also very grateful to my mother for taking good care of us for so many years. Until now, when we have an argument with our mother, my father will stand behind her and help her "educate" us.
When the father affirms the mother's efforts and cares about her feelings, the children naturally dare not expect anything from her, and it is easy for her to achieve better results in educating her children in the future.
A father who can correct children's mistakes and firmly support and praise his wife sets a good example for children. It not only maintains the image of the mother, but also teaches the children to be grateful and considerate.
Parents' love is the best mentor.
I don't know if you have paid attention to the variety "Life of Desire" just finished by Otsuka, which triggered a heated discussion on life among netizens. Huang Lei, who is in charge of three meals a day, is also enviable in real life.
He is too perfect to be true. As for his wife, he said, "I have loved a woman like my wife for 22 years." Not only did he say so, but he did.
From love to marriage, from campus to family, Huang Lei is surrounded by Sun Li from beginning to end. In this era of cheating and divorce, there are indeed some anomalies.
After giving birth to her daughter, Huang Lei put all the focus of her life on her family. No matter how popular and angry I am, I have been trying to make my wife happy and make money for her. In his life, his wife and daughter always come first.
Looking around, Huang Lei used to be both charming and talented, and even making a movie for the first time went smoothly. If you don't choose to get married, you may have higher achievements in your career.
But now it seems that the family is happy and the two daughters are smart and sensible. Isn't it a winner in life?
In a family, father is grateful to mother, and mother loves father. Children naturally have the best role models and the best upbringing.
The best thing fathers can do for their children is to love their mothers.
Because a woman who lives in her husband's love is soft, comfortable, warm and stable inside, she will treat everyone around her with an inclusive attitude and create a happy and warm family atmosphere.
A family has such a woman, and the most direct and biggest beneficiary is the child.