Many married women will face the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but when they meet a mother-in-law who is difficult to talk to, life is very difficult, especially when she is behind the former one. So what should the mother-in-law behind the previous set do?

In the morning, my husband asked Yan Yan what she wanted to eat so that the old man could cook it for her. Yan Yan said excitedly that she wanted to eat sweet and sour pork ribs. Yan Yan was a little moved to think that her mother-in-law cooked for herself for the first time.

At noon, the food was served on the table, and Yan Yan was dumbfounded. A plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes, a plate of vegetables and a plate of pickles.

During the period, my mother-in-law said that it was not easy for my son to support his family alone. Forget it, because it is not easy for her mother-in-law to cook, Yan Yan dared not say anything and ate it.

When she learned that her husband was going home for dinner in the evening, her mother-in-law cooked a very rich dinner, including sweet and sour pork ribs, stewed pig's trotters and boiled lean porridge. While eating, my mother-in-law said that my son has worked hard, so you two should eat more ... After dinner, Yan Yan became more and more depressed. Is she pregnant or is her husband pregnant?

Yan Yan didn't talk about her grievances, but complained to her husband. He also complained about his sitcom, saying that mom, an old man, worked so hard to help and cook food for you, even if she didn't appreciate it, she was still so ungrateful ... Alas! If I had known this, I really shouldn't have asked my mother-in-law for help.

And such a mother-in-law who is in front of her husband and carrying her husband on the other side is still rare in life?

Netizen "Coffee Bean": On the second day of caesarean section and wound suture, my mother-in-law said in front of her husband that you must take care of yourself. Leave the child alone and let the wound heal.

As a result, my husband came home at night, and my mother-in-law saw that the child was crying badly, so she told me that you should sit up and feed the child some milk. When I put my hand on my stomach, the gauze wrapped in the wound oozed blood.

Netizen "Spring Rain": One afternoon, my mother-in-law chatted with several old girlfriends and asked me to go to the supermarket to buy food. I took the bus all the way with a six-month-old belly.

I was too tired to get out of the supermarket, so I took a taxi. When I got home, my mother-in-law kept whispering that her son had to take a taxi to the supermarket so close to work. I have never seen such a waste.

In the evening, I heard my mother-in-law tell her husband that I went out to play all afternoon and had a good time. ...

Colleague Lan Lan: Last time I accompanied my mother-in-law to the shopping mall to buy clothes, my mother-in-law took a fancy to an expensive coat, and the shopping guide recognized that we were mother and daughter. As a result, her mother-in-law said discontentedly that her daughter would not be so petty.

I was so ashamed that I almost blew my baby up, so I bought it for my mother-in-law.

When I got home, my mother-in-law told her husband that my daughter-in-law wanted to buy me clothes, which were too expensive for me to wear. Later, my husband scolded me for asking me to face up to the pain.

However, if the pregnant mother really encounters this unsatisfactory situation, do you still have to confront your mother-in-law? Don't!

In fact, you can choose a more tactful way:

1. Have a good talk with your husband (be gentle and objective), but don't let him tell her mother-in-law directly, but remind her a little when things happen. How can the old man not understand?

2. Can't you afford to hide if you can't afford it? It's better to turn a blind eye, or talk to your bosom friend to relieve your mood. After all, the days of pregnancy pass day by day, and if you are in a good mood, the fetal development will be great.

3. Praise your mother-in-law appropriately. Old people love to brag as much as children, so pregnant mothers can say to their mother-in-law from time to time, "It's good to have you", "Cooking is delicious" and "Mom, you have worked hard". Since the elderly take care of the family, it is paying, and it will be very useful to give her a little spiritual reward.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with because both of them put each other on their own opposites, ostensibly relatives, but secretly regard each other as enemies. In the process of the contest between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, under normal circumstances, the negative emotions of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are heavier.

Mother-in-law will think of the grievances when she was a daughter-in-law, and think that her daughter-in-law married this family to rob her son, so even a good daughter-in-law will fail in her eyes.

As for daughters-in-law, they are generally treated according to their mother-in-law's attitude towards themselves. When my mother-in-law thinks about it carefully, she will find that when she first met her daughter-in-law, she was usually an aunt, and she was also a mother-in-law after marriage.

Until one day, the daughter-in-law got only disappointment and loss from her mother-in-law, and their relationship was completely deadlocked.

If we want to evaluate who is more responsible, the mother-in-law bears the brunt, followed by the man caught in the middle. When men don't act, there will be reckless mother-in-law and rebellious daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law is behind, the daughter-in-law is having a hard time, and it is too Japanese for her son to go home early from work.

When Ling Zhi just turned eighteen, his mother told him, "In the future, you must find a taller girlfriend."

Ling Zhi believes that the reason why the mother has special requirements for the height of her future daughter-in-law may be because her mother is not tall and her height is not high. Sometimes Lexus sees that his classmates have grown to more than one meter eight, and he is also envious.

However, regardless of calcium supplementation or exercise, his height is still only 1.7 meters, and there is no change at all.

After joining the work, Lexus is almost at the bottom of the company. Fortunately, he has real talent and learning, and the boss attaches great importance to him.

After the job was stable, relatives and friends began to introduce Lexus to his girlfriend. Lexus has only one requirement, that is, his height must be above 1.65 meters, otherwise even the best conditions will not be considered. I have been on blind dates for about seven times, but there are no suitable girls.

Until the eighth Lexus blind date, he finally took a fancy to the other girl, but she was not the protagonist of the blind date, but the protagonist's best friend, whose name was Xiaoxiao.

As the name implies, the little man is very small and looks barely 1.6 meters, but Lexus fell in love with the little man at first sight. Although their relationship was strongly opposed by their mother, they finally got married smoothly.

Xiaoxiao knows why her mother-in-law doesn't like herself, but she also clearly knows that she and her husband are in love. As long as you love each other, nothing can't be solved

After getting married, she lived with her mother-in-law since she was a child. She really wants to touch her through her kindness to her mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law can really accept herself from the bottom of her heart. I didn't expect her to be wrong.

Once, Xiaoxiao was washing the clothes of the whole family in the bathroom. When she needed two pieces, her mother-in-law asked Xiaoxiao to help her find something on Taobao. Mix stopped her work and went to Taobao according to her mother-in-law's instructions.

At this time, Lexus just got home and saw Xiaoxiao "playing" with his mobile phone, but his mother was washing clothes. He was a little unhappy. My mother said to Lexus, "My waist is uncomfortable, but there is nothing I can do. Smile and don't want to wash clothes, so I have to do it myself. "

A few days later, the mother said to her son, "The novel wants to eat crabs. This is 500 yuan. Go and buy some. " After Lexus bought crabs, she didn't eat any. When Lexus was away, her mother-in-law ate them all.

There are many such things. Xiao Xiao listened to her husband's complaints about himself. She knows the meaning of her mother-in-law behind the previous set, and she knows that what Lexus said is hard to believe.

One day, Xiaoxiao and Lexus made a special agreement to let him go home half an hour early, naturally knowing what happened at home. That day, Xiaoxiao cooked an accurate dinner for the whole family at home. According to her mother-in-law's request, she had three dishes and one soup.

When everything was basically ready, my mother-in-law came and said to the novel, "I'll do it, you go to rest." Xiaoxiao heard the door lock being opened when she walked out of the kitchen. She knew it was her husband.

So Xiaoxiao raised her voice slightly and said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, are you going to tell Lexus that you did all this work?" Mother-in-law didn't know that her son came back early, so she said to her daughter-in-law, "Yes, I just want my son to know that you are a woman who is not worth marrying home at all."

Short story, "but you know in your heart that I wash clothes, cook and do housework?" My mother-in-law sneered. "So what? My son only listens to me. "

Lexus found his mother and said to her, "Mom, your play was so good that I almost misunderstood Mix. From today on, Xiaoxiao and I will move out, and you will do the work yourself in the future. "

In fact, there is no need to be so stiff between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Being together will only make the whole family uncomfortable. Home is not like home, there is no warmth at all. A mother-in-law can be more considerate of her daughter-in-law. If she didn't gossip in front of her son, the family might be very harmonious.

When dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, what men hear is not evidence, only what they see with their own eyes is evidence. Don't let your wife be angry with her mother-in-law, but also with yourself.

You can't forget your mother when you marry a daughter-in-law. Her mother will be sad. Between mother and wife, a man tries to make a bowl of water even and impartial. Take some time to try to coax my mother and wife once in a while. When they are on good terms, it is not difficult for men to do it.

Lexus was right to take Mix out to live. My mother still cares because she is small. If two people continue to live, it will only make the contradiction more intense and more difficult to solve. It is better to try distance to produce beauty. Maybe one day, the mother will stop worrying about her daughter-in-law's figure, and all the problems will be solved.