catalogue

The first chapter is how to end the married life and how to start the divorced life.

Common ways of marriage failure II

The key to a happy marriage 3

Be alert! Four stages of marriage misfortune 6

Four reasons lead to divorce 10

Premature divorce 12

Children "remarry" 14

Chapter II Family Changes Caused by Divorce 16

The nature of change 17

Help children adapt to changes 18

Help children let go 19

Go on with your new life 2 1

Chapter III Understanding the Demand Brought by Change 24

Divorce is a complicated change.

Distinguish between two variations 26

How to explain changes to children 29

Help children cope with pain 3 1

Help children recover 36

Chapter IV The Process of Divorce 39

Accept divorce 40

Controversial divorce

Role and recovery in divorce 43

The "breakup" of a happy marriage

A good divorce 46

Chapter V Good Communication 49

Share your feelings with your children.

Say it out loud.

The harm of silence 55

How to tell children about divorce 57

Correctly handle children's emotional reactions 59

Chapter VI Childhood and Divorce 63

The child's age is 64

Coping with the fear of being lost

Signs of trouble

I hate you! 70

Suicide statement 72

Chapter VII Adolescent children encounter their parents divorced, 75

New challenges

How to tell that puberty has come 76

Three elements of adolescence 78

The influence of parents' divorce on adolescent children 8 1

Responsible for the behavior of adolescent children

Chapter VIII Different Stages of Divorce and Adolescence 86

Understanding the four stages of adolescence 87

Early adolescence

Middle adolescence 9 1

Late adolescence 94

Try independent stage 96

Chapter IX Only Child and Divorce 99

"Two parents/one child" family 100

10 1 When there is a crack in the parents' marriage.

Unpleasant contradiction 103

Don't use children as guns. Production 104.

Escaping will make things worse 105

Facing parents' mistakes 105

Chapter 10 Establishing Single-parent Families 108

Ex-spouse 109

Separating does not mean rejecting 1 10.

Let children become important members of the new family 1 1 1.

Handling conflicts between brothers and sisters 1 13

Management TV 1 15

XI establishment rules 1 18 chapter

Divorce changes the old rules 1 19

Differences in rules and values between divorced parties 120

Teach children to think twice before you act 123

Establish authority 125

Chapter XII Principles of Competent Parents 129

Principle of consent 130

Guidance: capable parents will not be silent 13 1

Supervision: capable parents will not give up 132.

Punishment: parents who have the ability will not give it on 134.

Exchange purpose: capable parents will not give all gifts to their children.

Chapter XIII Stress and Single Parents 138

Understanding pressure 139

Alleviate urgent needs 14 1

Limit pressure 144

The importance of self-repair 146

Revision and change 147

Sudden change means pressure 148.

Chapter XIV Importance of Support 150

Don't bear 15 1 alone.

Single parents should respect their roles 153

Support from friends 156

The cost of giving support 157

Help provided by children 158

Seeking support should be moderate 159

Chapter 15 Education Management 16 1

Overall development 162

Providing family support for children's study 164

Injured at school 166

The grades in early adolescence decreased 17 1.

Solutions to performance degradation 172

Chapter XVI Influence of Gender Roles on Single Parents 175

Characteristics of parent-child relationship 176

Early influence of parents 177

Early influence of peers 178

The expansion of single parents' gender roles 179

The problem of the missing father 180

Chapter 17 Gender 182

Simple psychology does not affect 183.

Mothers and daughters: identical and alienated 185

Mother and son: uniqueness and intimacy 187

Father and son: accept the comparison 189

Father and daughter: belittle affirmation 19 1

Chapter 18 Relationship with Former Partner 194

Effective communication 195

Actively adhere to the details 196

Regard ex-spouse as an ally 197

Booking "Terms of Understanding" 197

Four types of differences 198

Manage differences 200

"Good Times" parents' dissatisfaction 202

Take a hard line with your ex-spouse

Chapter 19 Life of Two Families 207

Adjust the visiting hours for children 208

Adaptation period for single parents to visit 2 1 1

When your child acts like your ex-spouse, 2 12

Adolescence-Enemy of Visiting Hours 2 14

Chapter 20 Try Marriage Again 2 17

Dating and children 2 18

Dealing with new relationships with ex-spouses 2 19

Single parent role conflict 22 1

Adjustment of remarried families 223

Common tensions and conflicts in remarried families 226

Try to help remarried families.

Things you can and can't do in a remarried family 230