Of course, in my impression, I only feel that both have shortcomings. Because some children are hard to convince by reason alone. The easiest way is to vary from person to person. We can also be a little more patient and turn fear into the most trust, while another parent can play a role in making him dare not go too far and carry out reasoning to the end, so that the child will not grow crooked. But if this kind of education is transferred to uncle Meng, it will be less euphemistic.
We always have a special impression of what we were afraid of when we were young. Don't bully our children. They have no memory. In fact, children will have a good memory of things they hate, so if they don't want to find out how unreliable their parents are when they grow up, they'd better have their own special education. Don't be eager for quick success and instant benefit when you are young. It is better to be more patient.
People don't agree with this kind of education because they are responsible for their children. And parents choose to do this, which is undoubtedly putting the cart before the horse. They are relaxed, but they don't care what their children think. Although children are young now, they have their own ideas when they grow up. They will realize that their parents are irresponsible people, which will make them begin to question and feel sad. Even lose trust in parents. Therefore, in education, don't be lazy and don't expect others to help you teach your children well, especially in this irresponsible form.