Model essay on parental parenting experience 1:

At present, children of most urban families in China begin to learn special skills from kindergarten, including painting, vocal music, instrumental music, calligraphy, physical education and so on. With the growth of children's age, homework becomes heavier and heavier, especially in high school, and the study of extracurricular specialties will gradually stop.

It's really embarrassing to see that many friends' children used to practice the piano very hard, but now they can't even play a simple tune. After years of hard work, the piano has become a decoration.

Like most parents, I have experienced the difficult process of selecting special items for my children, sending them to class and practicing with them. Fortunately, my children have never given up their specialty practice from primary school to college. As a parent, I have some experience in this process.

When children go to kindergarten, his paintings are often posted in the exhibition column. The teacher has told me many times that my child has a talent for painting and should take extra-curricular classes to cultivate his expertise in this field. I asked my child for advice, but he was not interested. I just gave up because I was too lazy to pick him up.

After children go to primary school, I think they should learn a specialty. In order to reduce unnecessary investment, I chose a career for my children that doesn't need to buy equipment-singing, so that I can practice with my mouth. From the beginning of learning to sing, I went through the process of picking up and dropping off for six years. My children are very talented in music, with good intonation, rhythm and sound quality, but they don't like singing, mainly because the choir teacher is fierce and strict.

Every time I send my child to sing for more than 1 hour, he always keeps saying, "Mom, I don't like singing. I don't want to sing." I almost broke my lip and earnestly advised him: I understand his feelings, let him sing first, and then give up when he really doesn't like it when he grows up. When the children are practicing singing, I usually wait outside the classroom to knit a sweater. After several years, I have knitted several sweaters. On the way to pick up the child, I will prepare a bunch of snacks for him to eat in the car according to his requirements, so that he can be happy and willing to go next time. Although the child finally gave up singing because I couldn't send him abroad, he received systematic music theory training in the choir and had strong visual spectrum ability.

My child began to learn flute in the school orchestra in the third grade of elementary school. He agreed to learn flute because I promised that he would not sing if he wanted to learn flute. My children are also very talented in learning flute, and they learned it among more than a dozen children in the wind band. But he likes singing. He doesn't like playing the flute.

I have to be coaxed and praised for practicing every day, and at the same time I have to endure the harsh flute sound when he played early. As long as he insists on playing, I don't care about his posture and hand shape. Even if he doesn't want to learn from the teacher, I agree that he has taught himself for more than a year so that he can't give up. My child once told his classmates' parents that he didn't like playing the flute, but he practiced it every day for his father and me. I am very moved to hear this, and I deeply feel that children are not easy and considerate to their parents.

In order to have personal experience, I began to learn flute in 2004. When I first started playing, I was really dizzy and weak, and I realized how hard it was for my child to learn this instrument. Since then, I have treated my children's flute playing with more consideration and understanding, and I have also said more and more disgusting words of praise and encouragement.

I always keep in mind that the purpose of letting children learn flute is to let them have another way to express their feelings in the future, not to train them to become flute players. I used to be unable to resist worldly vanity and let my children pass the exam. The boring repetitive practice almost made my child give up learning flute. Now that I think about it, I regret that it doesn't meet the purpose of learning.

Under the patient persuasion of parents, my child agreed to learn flute from the teacher again in the fifth grade, and was later admitted to the symphony orchestra of the middle school attached to the National People's Congress. Now he is the chief flute player of Tsinghua University Military Band. Looking back on the process of children learning flute, I deeply feel that parents' perseverance and patience are the basis for children to persist in learning. Careful selection of learning items, always bearing in mind the purpose of learning, not blindly grading, praise and encouragement are important factors for children to adhere to their learning expertise.

I once heard a friend say that her daughter was invited to participate in literary and artistic activities many times in college because of her hot figure and beautiful appearance, but she gave up because she was untrained and incompetent. She is very helpless and regretful, blaming her mother for not letting her learn some literary expertise when she was a child. My friend innocently told my daughter that when I sent my child to learn dance and vocal music, the child didn't like it and soon gave up. Hearing this, the child said to his mother, I was not sensible at that time, and neither were you? I am afraid that my children will say the same thing to me in the future, which is one of the factors that I have been trying to make my children learn flute.

Parental parenting experience model essay 2:

Dandan was born on February 22nd, 2006. As a father, I must think about education while the arrival of the baby brings joy to my family. Dandan grows up healthily; Learning ability and knowledge are constantly improving, and learning to crawl, walk and talk is earlier than ordinary children of the same age; Cheerful and easy to get along with people, more reasonable ... As the baby grows up, I have summed up some experiences:

1. Cultivate children's curiosity

Children are particularly curious and want to know everything. They should answer their questions. The germination of trees, dew on flowers and plants, insects in the grass, fish in the pond, tadpoles ... the sun came out and it was dawn! The sun goes down, it's dark! Spring has come and swallows have flown back ... Dandan not only often asks questions, but also applies what he has learned. If the route of driving back to kindergarten changes, she will definitely ask, "Why is the road different this time?"

2. Be a "cruel" parent

Now most children are only children, and their parents are very fond of them. Although my baby is a girl, we often let her climb high, walk on a wooden bridge and do some difficult movements. And I often say, "Dad won't help you, you should protect yourself." I mean it. There is a flower base in my community where Dandan often takes the "single-plank bridge". Now she can cross the bridge quickly. After Danny learned to walk, I pulled her up and let her cross the bridge by herself. The child fell, put it on again, and praised her for being brave. Of course, the premise of doing these things is that parents understand that even if she falls, there will be no great harm, because the flower base is relatively low.

3. Be a role model for children

The way to educate a baby is for parents to set an example and take responsibility bravely. If you want your baby to love reading, parents should also read more books and tell stories with your baby. If you want your baby not to litter, you should also abide by social morality. Once after eating bananas, I found that there was no trash can nearby, so I threw banana peels everywhere. As a result, Dandan said, "It's not good to throw garbage everywhere, and the baby doesn't like it." I have to say, I'm sorry, dad, pick up the phone. Let's find a trash can. Children will see all the actions of adults. If you don't pay attention, children may learn "bad".

4. Educate children to care about others

Some people will say, do kindergarten children take care of others? Is this necessary? I think it's too important. Because the only child is taken care of too much, a large group of parents, grandparents take care of a child, which easily makes him or her lose focus; When I grow up, I don't know how to take care of other people's feelings and take myself as the center. Dandan eats fruit at home. We will let her give it to her elders first, then to her grandparents, then to her parents, and finally to herself. Let her help adults get tissues, help adults wipe their mouths, and help parents throw garbage into the trash can. Now, if I take Danny out to the doorman of the community, she will often take the initiative to run to the front and press the switch to open the door and let me out; I will take the initiative to help my parents when eating. I believe that caring babies will be more popular than selfish people when they grow up.

5. Correctly handle the relationship between strictness and love

It is the nature of every parent to love their baby, but the principled things must also be strictly required. For example: the safety of electricity, first make it clear to the baby, if you put your little hand into the electrical socket, it will hurt and even get an electric shock. If she doesn't listen to this, let her know when you clap your hands or hands. Of course, she must be reasonable after the fight. Dandan is doing a lot of things better now. For example, you must wash your hands first when playing outside or coming home from kindergarten; In order to protect your teeth, try not to eat candy. If you do this, in principle, you should not eat more than one tablet every day. Once, I found that there might be something wrong with the quality of a candy in her mouth. I reasoned with her: "Dandan, dad found that this candy had a problem with its shelf life, and it might hurt if he ate it." She threw it in the trash, and I praised her.

The baby is growing and the parents are making progress. As long as we are willing to use our brains and think more ways, we will certainly be able to cultivate a good baby and let her (him) grow up healthily! I wish all the babies in the world can grow up happily, and all the parents in the world can be happy.

Parental parenting experience model essay 3:

How time flies! In a blink of an eye, Ye Ye has become a child in the middle class of preschool education center, and the change is remarkable. As a parent, I don't ask my child to do anything, but I must cultivate his interest in things. I also hope that he can grow up happily and healthily in such an environment. The following are some experiences I have learned from my daily life:

Cultivate his simple self-care ability

Before the child goes to school, I let him learn to wear simple clothes, socks and shoes slowly. Eat by yourself, brush your teeth and wash your face by yourself. If he says "I dress myself, I eat myself, I cook myself", you should let him try. If he doesn't want to, you can interest him in a pleasant way, even though he may wear funny clothes or eat all over the table with his shoes turned upside down. As a parent, he should not joke, but say "you are great", encourage him and let him.

Cultivate his reading ability

I have been telling him stories intentionally or unintentionally since he was young. Although he didn't quite understand many times, he still stood up and listened with relish. I know he's interested. When he grew up, I chose some vivid and reasonable stories, nursery rhymes, idiom stories and three famous books for him. Let him think with a small brain, answer simple questions, or describe stories in general, which not only stimulates his imagination, but also improves his memory, cultivates his interest and knows what kind of child to be, so now I insist on telling him a story every night.

Cultivate his curiosity

Now all I can think about is why. Mainly because he wants to know the principle of a little thing to satisfy his curiosity, so he must not be perfunctory, that is, irresponsible, but try to find an answer for him, even if he says he doesn't know to ask others or teachers.

I try to take him to play when I am free. This year's World Expo, aquarium management, zoo, or walking in the park, mainly want him to increase his knowledge, breathe fresh air, let him know the customs of various countries, and let him know all kinds of creatures in the sea.

Cultivate his confidence

Most of the time, we can't measure and compare with adults' practices, accusing him of doing something bad, doing something wrong, or even trying to make him perfect for a little thing, which has hit his young mind and made him lose confidence in everything and feel that he can't do anything well and needs criticism. We should give proper praise and then point out the shortcomings, and we will definitely do better next time. Let him not be afraid and be more confident.

The above are some precautions I have accumulated in my daily life. Of course, they may not be very good, but they are in place. I hope to communicate with more parents and learn better parenting knowledge. Teach our little baby better, more sensible and healthier.