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The performance of several types of children and the main educational methods
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A child with excess energy.
These children are mainly fond of playing and fighting, and difficult to discipline, but they are smart, active, quick-witted and receptive.
The main methods of education:
First of all, we should establish good interpersonal relationships with children and let them know that they are not "disobedient children" so that they can easily receive psychological education and guidance.
Secondly, we should let go and discipline appropriately. If the discipline is too strict, it will be counterproductive if it is not in line with their personality. Give him some freedom, some time and space for activities.
Thirdly, patient teaching: patient education and persuasion, through reasoning, let children understand that some of their "opinions" are not so good and do not conform to social morality and norms, so as to give up their "opinions" on their own initiative, overcome their own problems and gradually move towards the road of growth.
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A child who is not attentive in class.
Such children are mainly active, fun and talkative in class, and even absent-minded when studying at home.
Regarding the education of such children, some parents said, "That's a school matter, and I shouldn't be in charge, and I can't sit next to the children." In fact, to cultivate children to concentrate on listening, we should start from daily life, because living habits and study habits are closely related.
The main methods of education:
First of all, parents should train their children to listen once and do it at once.
Secondly, in life, parents can consciously train their children's obedient ability, such as arranging three or four things, what to do first, what to do later and what to do finally. Parents should observe whether their children are like this.
Thirdly, parents should consciously train their children's attention, talk to them, and let them look at your face and listen.
Fourth, parents can also tell their children some tips for attending classes.
Fifth, parents should try their best to let their children retell the contents of the class, or talk about the most impressive problems in the class.
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Children who pursue money and material comforts.
This kind of children are mainly characterized by "wearing famous brands and eating fine products", paying attention to food and clothing, and some have to go to school by motorcycle and tricycle.
The main methods of education:
First of all, parents should set an example, be hard-working and simple, and tell their childhood life experiences and stories.
Secondly, parents should tell their children about their family income and expenditure plans and seek their opinions appropriately.
Thirdly, effectively educate children to spend money in a planned way and educate children with typical examples.
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Children who don't care about the education of their elders.
Such children turn a deaf ear to the education of their parents and teachers.
The main methods of education:
First of all, let children understand the painstaking efforts of their parents and understand that any educational methods of parents and teachers are for the healthy growth of children.
Secondly, we should educate them in a harmonious atmosphere, eliminate their hostility and make them willing to listen.
Third, give the child the right to speak and let him tell the reason, even if it is incorrect or untrue.
Fourth, be more tolerant. After education, we will still make mistakes. We should give the opportunity to correct it and wait patiently.
Fifth, the tone of educating children should be firm, and the tone of parents should be consistent. Some parents are laughing, some are careless, some are understated, and some are boastful, which is not conducive to education.
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A seriously lazy child.
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This kind of children are mainly manifested in passive learning, incomplete or plagiarized homework, which leads to blank test papers or cheating in exams and lax life.
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The main methods of education:
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First of all, we should start training from the usual housework, and don't let children reach for food and clothes.
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The second is to help children make plans and strengthen supervision and inspection.
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Third, parents should lead by example and lead by example in everything.
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Fourth, we should cultivate the habit of hard work from the small things that children can do, persevere and insist on training.
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In short, as long as parents adhere to the educational principle of "moving with emotion, reasoning with reason, guiding with action and perseverance" in family education, and pay attention to family education methods on the basis of understanding children, they will certainly make due contributions to the country's training of qualified next generation.
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The growth of children depends not only on teachers and schools, but also on parents and families, but now many parents lack a real understanding of how to educate their children. Some parents beat and scold their children in the old way, which not only fails to achieve the educational effect, but also backfires. Some parents always like to compare their children with others, or let their children do according to their own requirements, "do whatever they should", which seriously dampened their enthusiasm and curbed their healthy growth. So how can parents better cooperate with the school and educate their children?
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Here are some ideas and suggestions.
Love should be appropriate and strict.
Tutoring often has "polarization". Love her to death or be cruel. Parents who love their children too much often do everything for their children, so that children can't learn to overcome difficulties on their own from an early age, don't do their own things, and take the help of others for granted. Some parents are too strict with their children on the grounds of "love" and often scold or even beat them. Such children are often obedient, but gradually lose self-esteem, self-confidence, courage and perseverance, as well as the desire to dare to tell the truth. The ideal tutor should be "loving and strict". Parents should give their children more words of encouragement, share more happy times with their children and give them more room for development. I believe that children must be the best.
Don't take the place of children's choices.
Parents in China often have a "uneasy" mentality when they treat their children, and they will do many things to help them. Help children dress since childhood, let children sleep with adults since childhood, help children go to school, check stationery books, and prevent children from doing housework. Even when I grow up, I have to find a job and get married. Under this arrangement, children's curiosity and psychology of trying are obliterated, and they become lazy, dependent, afraid of hardship and fatigue, indecisive and irresponsible. Let children do what they can as soon as possible. The key choice is to let the children choose by themselves, which can increase their sense of responsibility and self-confidence.
Understanding of multiple intelligences.
Howard Gadner, a psychologist and a professor at Harvard University, put forward the theory of human multiple intelligences, arguing that there are at least seven independent intelligences, namely, speech-language intelligence, music-rhythm intelligence, logic-mathematics intelligence, vision-space intelligence, body-kinesthetic intelligence, self-knowledge-introspection intelligence and communication-communication intelligence. These intelligences are intricately combined in different ways and degrees in different people, so that everyone's intelligence has unique performance and characteristics. Therefore, we should be soberly aware that intelligence is multifaceted and has different forms of expression, and the criteria for judging a person's intelligence and success should also be varied. Don't jump to conclusions about children. Teach children to be good at discovering their own strengths, and explore and develop them so that every child can succeed in the end.
Mistakes are as important as success.
Most parents always think that "it is not good for children to make mistakes", but for children's growth, mistakes are as inevitable and meaningful as success. The process of children making mistakes is the process of children constantly trying, innovating and growing up. Because children are afraid of making mistakes, they dare not try anything, and grow up cautiously and with trepidation. This is the biggest failure. Mistakes are also a kind of beauty and a kind of success. When children make mistakes, parents must be calm. When this is a good thing and an opportunity for children to progress and grow, don't make a fuss, don't blame, and don't give children a chance to try and practice because they are afraid of making mistakes.
Learn to praise children.
Now everyone understands appreciation education, but praising children is also a science and an art, and only when it is used properly can the ideal effect be achieved. First of all, praise should be fair and reasonable, realistic, not exaggerated and not narrow-minded. If praise is inaccurate, children will have doubts and will not be motivated. If praise is wrong, children will think it is right and have a bad influence. Secondly, praise should be true. Only by sincerely praising can children respond positively. Absent-minded and perfunctory, children often feel that they are lying to him. Parents sincerely praise their children's progress, infect them with sincerity and affection, and establish the determination and confidence that "I will do better in the future". Third, praise should be timely, otherwise things will change. Without the atmosphere at that time, the role of praise will be reduced. There are many forms of praise: in addition to sincere language, there are admiring eyes and smiles, kind hugs, gentle touches, and so on. Children can't grow up overnight. Parents should always pay attention to their children's behaviors, often praise their advantages and progress, and let them fully feel their parents' trust and encouragement.
Teach children to appreciate others and not be self-centered.
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Only children are often surrounded by others. They seldom consider others, let alone appreciate them. Naturally, there is no cooperation, which brings troubles to interpersonal relationships and is unfavorable to your future career. Parents should educate their children to appreciate others, so that children can treat themselves correctly and cooperate well with others. You can often invite other children to participate in activities with your own children and guide them to appreciate others. If we can educate our children to learn an advantage from everyone they meet at an early age, then our children will be excellent.