1. Lack of educational knowledge and skills: Parents may lack systematic educational knowledge and skills, do not know how to carry out effective education, and do not know how to stimulate children's interest and motivation.

2. Incomplete understanding of children's education: Parents may not have a comprehensive concept of children's education, only paying attention to children's academic performance or emphasizing obedience and obeying rules, while ignoring children's personality, interests and needs.

3. Poor parent-child communication: The communication between parents and children is not smooth enough, and children may not really understand their parents' intentions and expectations, nor can they express their thoughts and needs to their parents.

4. Conceptual differences: Due to the influence of family background, growth environment and other factors, parents and children may have conceptual differences, resulting in inconsistent educational methods and means, making it difficult to carry out education effectively.

Solutions include:

1. Improve parents' educational knowledge and skills: Parents can improve their educational level and skills by attending educational training courses, reading relevant books and consulting professional educational institutions.

2. Establish a comprehensive concept of children's education: Parents should establish a comprehensive concept of children's education, understand their personality, interests and needs, and adopt appropriate educational methods and means according to their actual situation.

3. Strengthen parent-child communication: Parents should maintain good communication with their children, care about their thoughts and needs, and respect their personality and rights in order to establish a good parent-child relationship.

4. Pay attention to the consensus of family education: Parents should pay attention to the consensus of family education, maintain the consistency of ideas, and formulate reasonable family rules and educational goals in order to realize the all-round development of children.