1, absorb educational knowledge
The society is changing, the environment for children to grow up is also changing, and the educational methods will naturally continue to improve. As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge. In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents jump out of their own success experience and adjust their educational concepts in time.
2. Listen to your children patiently
If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to disobedient children is usually swearing. Parents are advised to calm down first, try to be patient and ask their children what the reason is. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve them, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.
3. Treat children sincerely
Some parents always like to use the tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes it difficult for children to accept. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children, let them know that his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry and fear, so that children will repay you with the same sincerity.
Step 4 negotiate with your children
Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back.