Some parents emphasize grades, which are divided into grades that children must get in class or even in school. If you regress a few points, you will think that your child has neglected his studies and will not let him play with students with poor academic performance. This kind of parental education is extremely unsuccessful. Even if the children can go to a school like Tsinghua Peking University, their understanding of the world is problematic. This kind of child spends twenty years studying, which is a quarter of a person's time. At this stage, children are just beginning to know the world, and they only feel the pressure of the world and the boredom of learning. In this way, the child's three views will only be rigid and will not know how to get along with others.

Some parents regard their children as a tool to show off and are bent on cultivating all-round talents. Let children participate in various training courses and arrange their after-school life in after-school classes. Thinking that it is good for children and cultivating them into generalists is actually ruining their childhood. The children trained in this way are not good at every subject, not only physically tired, but also accomplish nothing in the end. Among them, some children will inherit the essence of this show-off, showing off everywhere like a gorgeous peacock, with a strong desire to express. It is not a good thing for children to be sharp and strong.

I think a good education should be to cultivate a child's excellent three views and ways of dealing with the world. Excellent and low key, tolerant and calm. This kind of education allows children to respect every different individual, know right and wrong, share right and wrong, and have their own unique judgment in front of things. Such children are cheerful and introverted, and are easily respected and envied by others from the heart. First of all, we should give children good economic conditions, and secondly, we should pay attention to personality education. I have seen some children as dazzling and low-key as gentlemen, which makes people feel very comfortable and really praises them. This is an excellent person.