1, calm down first. Whether educating disobedient children or obedient children, we should keep calm, so as not to educate children with emotions, but also to play a good leading role for children. 2. Take the lead actively. Since they are disobedient, let them see their Excellence and feel the benefits of being an obedient child. Such a positive leading role will make children feel more. 3. Know what to say and what not to say, what to do and what not to do. Educating disobedient children should also know how to grasp the degree, so that children can understand what they should know and be familiar with what they should know. We shouldn't say something bad to our children. Children can be educated in the form of telling stories. Children in primary schools still need guidance. The story is very attractive and can be told to children. Educating disobedient children and impressing them with stories is more effective. For example, we can compare them with friends around them. When educating children, it can also stimulate their motivation and let them know the importance of learning and progress. Take obedient good children or excellent children as examples, and let them know what kind of people to learn. 6. Don't beat and scold. Even if the child is disobedient, don't beat and scold, give the child enough dignity and face, and educate the child in a scientific and rational way instead of beating and scolding. Remember to start from the place where your child is interested and think from the child's point of view. Sometimes you will find your child's Excellence. They are disobedient, not because they are not good enough, but for other purposes. Therefore, you'd better know what your child is thinking first, and then go to targeted education.