In real life, many people like to "harm others" and even regard it as their own preference. People say that "good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June", which makes sense. Being praised will make people feel comfortable, and being hurt will make people feel uncomfortable. Adults feel this way, and so do children.

1, why do you say that educating children should avoid "psychological punishment"

Everyone wants their children to be smart and sensible, but children are naturally fond of playing, and many things need to be slowly guided by adults. In ordinary life, many adults do not pay attention to their own educational methods, which have an impact on children inadvertently. Children's self-esteem is also very strong. If we don't pay attention to their emotions, it may have an impact on their psychology. Many people think that children are not sensible and many things will not be taken to heart. Actually, this is not right. Usually, children can be punished appropriately, but don't use corporal punishment or "spiritual punishment", which will affect their growth.

2. How to educate children correctly?

Different families have different ways of education, so parents need to keep exploring in educating their children. But there are several places to pay special attention to when educating children. It is normal for children to be ignorant when they are young. Don't always cling to their mistakes. Parents should have educated their children well. If children know everything, what else should parents do? Children have their own ideas, so parents should communicate with their children more, which will save more effort in education.

Learn to be friends with children and get along with them in different ways. Maybe children will accept it more easily.