? On the road of child-rearing, as the mother of the child, there is a lot of happiness and confusion, especially when the child reaches the primary school stage, sometimes he feels pain, and his illness is frequent and he is very anxious. The big educational environment invisibly puts great pressure on parents. I feel trapped inside. When I first joined the Fan Deng Book Club and listened to Mr. Fan Deng's lecture for the first time, I felt I had an exit. Teacher Fan Deng said, "When you feel tired and painful in parenting, it means that your parenting method is wrong." So I came to Fan's parents' training camp.
? During the 28-day continuous four-week study in the new parents' training camp, starting from the essence of education, I first understand life and then think about education, and let me know that children's problems are parents' own problems. The three pillars of family education are unconditional love, sense of value and lifelong growth. In order to accompany their children's lifelong growth, parents should first learn the correct parenting methods themselves. The process of self-healing helped me a lot, which made me open the knot of my childhood growth and face up to the lack of education of my parents. However, I can give positive feedback when I am grateful to my parents through self-awareness and self-acceptance. In this process, we will continue to heal ourselves, so as to achieve bad intergenerational transmission before the end and let ourselves start again in the principle of parenting.
? Unconditional love is gentle and has boundaries. First of all, how do parents control their emotions? The application of Peng Kaiping's five-step rapid management of negative emotions and Fu Liping's angle of emotional pause will help me control my emotions effectively. From the beginning of reading, Teacher Zhu Yongxin gave me good guidance and methods in parent-child reading. I made a reading plan with the children. Happy parent-child reading with my children makes us feel the power and fun of knowledge from reading.
? Thanks to the new parents training camp, just 28 days of study, I have a new understanding and growth on the road of parenting, and there are too many feelings to write. When we and our children are full of unconditional love for each other, I believe we can accompany our children to grow up together all their lives!