1, discuss with children, don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back.

2, calm yourself and your child's emotions and communicate again. Although parents pay attention to preemption and hope to take the lead in criticizing their children, this may not have a good effect. Therefore, in the way of whispering education, parents should calm their emotions and children's emotions first, so as to communicate effectively. Therefore, after the child makes a mistake, it is advisable to give the child some time to vent his emotions before communicating with the child.

3, words and deeds, parents are the children's first teacher. Children have emotions, let alone adults. Whether children can control their emotions depends on their parents' practices. Usually at home, don't lose your temper easily. If you don't even do it yourself, how can you ask your child to control his emotions reasonably?

4. Listen to the child patiently. If you are an impatient parent, the most direct reaction to a child who doesn't listen to discipline is usually swearing. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.

Parents should communicate with their children equally in attitude. When you encounter problems, you should discuss with your child, give him independent space, listen to his ideas more, and come up with a plan to make him feel respected and valued, so that he will be willing to communicate with you and let you participate in his affairs.

6. Think from the child's perspective. If you want to do as you are told, act arbitrarily and let him do everything your way, then he will be more rebellious and you will not be able to communicate. At this time, children will feel that they have grown up, have independent thoughts, and have a strong sense of autonomy. He is not much different from his parents in strength and size, so he is often dissatisfied with their methods. Therefore, parents should consider the problem on the same level as their children.

7. Communicate and educate with teachers. After parents know their situation, they can help them through teachers' educational methods. Let teachers do ideological work for them in the right way of education.