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How should parents of junior high school students guide them?
1, set an example and pay attention to words and deeds. Many children don't study because their parents didn't take a good start. There is a saying that rats make holes when they are born.

2. Communicate with children more, understand their mentality and solve existing problems in time. Junior high school students are in adolescence. They have children's innocence and independent thoughts at the same time, and often go their own way. Parents should patiently guide, deeply analyze the advantages and disadvantages, and guide them to develop in the right direction.

3. Strengthen communication and contact with class teachers and teachers. Introduce the child to the class teacher. Always know the situation from the class teacher and the teacher, and report the child's little progress to the class teacher and the teacher, so that the class teacher can communicate in time. Parents are very important and teachers are the key to the smooth growth of children.

4. Give children more praise and encouragement. Giving children more appreciative eyes is conducive to cultivating children's good moral behavior habits and qualities, and is conducive to enhancing parents' sense of responsibility for their children. Give children more appreciation, they will see their unique strengths and advantages, see their little progress, affirm their children, persist in encouraging, patiently guide, treat them calmly, and support them with practical actions. This is very necessary.

5. Fully respect children's nature and cultivate children to learn to rest and adjust. Curiosity, rich imagination and competitiveness are the three elements of children's growth. Because children are young and naturally love to play, in this regard, we must ensure that children have enough mobile time to play and relax and do what they like.

6. Pay attention to daily communication with children and help them overcome their shortcomings. We attach great importance to communication with children, and let them talk about the advantages and disadvantages of their classmates and what shortcomings need to be improved.

7. Parents should keep up with their children's growth in time, and a correct understanding of their adolescence and rebellious period is a necessary stage in life. Mutual understanding and trust are the most important prerequisites for parent-child communication. Pay attention to communication methods, avoid long-winded preaching, and set an example for children at the same time.

8. Seek the help of adolescent psychological counselors. When their own educational methods are ineffective, they should seek help from experienced psychological counseling experts in time and carry out personalized education programs, which can make their education less detours and let children return to the right track of learning as soon as possible.