There is no absolute quality in a child's personality, and the formation of personality is determined by heredity and acquired environment. Part of the child's personality and appearance has been decided in the mother's stomach; There is also a more important part from the influence of the acquired environment. Children who live in a positive environment since childhood can naturally have a sunny and confident personality.

So, how should parents cultivate their children's understanding and understanding character?

1. Cultivate children to understand the wishes of others

Some families only cherish their children, but neglect to teach them to care and understand others. After a long time, children will develop a stingy, introverted and unsociable character. While giving children all kinds of care, we should also let them know how to care, sympathize and understand others.

2. Improve children's ability to understand others.

The ability to understand others mainly includes the understanding of verbal information and non-verbal information. Good coordination and communication need to be based on the understanding of floral fragrance. Many times, only by letting children combine body language, environmental information and words can they better understand the meaning of other people's words.

3. Teach children to forgive and comfort others

Everyone needs forgiveness and help from others when they are sad and in trouble. This psychological need is an objective need. Let children master the psychological quality of understanding, which is equivalent to letting them find a lofty path in the ordinary.

Understanding is what everyone longs for, but everyone wants others to use it on themselves. As parents, we should set an example in our daily life and teach our children how to be considerate with our actual words and deeds.

On weekdays, children should also be allowed to observe more and discover their true nature through things, so as to better see their responsibilities from the needs of others.