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In the process of growing up, children's understanding of society and life is step by step from shallow to deep. When children grow up, they will look at and understand the world with their own perspectives and thoughts. The world in his eyes is actually very simple. The rebellious period is not terrible. The terrible thing is that parents disagree. Parents should pay attention to their children's rebellious period. Children in this period need to be understood and recognized, not just that children are right, but that parents need to patiently learn to look at problems from the perspective of children. Education is not just preaching. For children's rebellion, we need to analyze it according to their psychological development.

At this time, children strongly want to get rid of their parents' control and make their own decisions. This is the third rebellious period. In the rebellious period of children, parents should try to follow their wishes and educate their children by showing weakness and persuasion; Even if children don't listen, it is very beneficial for them to understand what their parents say when they hit a wall.

Subjectively, many adolescent children are in the transition period of their lives. Their sense of self and independence is enhanced. They want to get rid of the supervision of adults and don't like adults treating them like children. So they strongly demand that they be treated as adults. In order to show their extraordinary ability, they often criticize everything. They are worried that the outside world will ignore their independent existence, so they use various methods, including some extremely wrong methods, to establish their feelings of opposition to the outside world and prove their independence.

When a child is sixteen or seventeen, he will be a little rebellious. This is the only way for everyone to become an adult, as if changing something. The severity of rebellious psychology is related to family members. Now there are many programs about teenagers' psychological problems, and what children let their parents enter adolescence and so on. Now that there are many only children in the family, parents will meet all the needs of their children. When I was young, I was ok. As I get older, I think more and more. If you don't know him and can't get into their hearts, you won't understand what he did.