Everyone wants everything to be treated fairly, reasonably and with respect. Don't think children are young. In fact, students' self-esteem is no less than what adults call face. I hope they can communicate with their parents in a friendly way and want their love and respect. If parents are always impetuous when communicating with their children, it is depressing and unreasonable for children. As they get older, their inner "why" will become more and more obvious.
2. Give a new idea to reasoning. If parents and children come to bad conclusions in reasoning, we suggest that parents change the form of reasoning. We can add some new ideas to children's reasoning space to make reasoning less serious. For example, today we are going to tell our children the truth of muddling along, and we can plan the future with our children before making sense.
If we should take our children to the playground in the next hour, parents will be able to sleep peacefully in bed again. In the main performance of parents' calm attitude, if there is no accident, children will be eager to fly to the children's paradise at once and will continue to urge parents to consider it as soon as possible. Is the scene at this time like parents urging their children to wake up and take the college entrance examination?
In order to make the reasoning effect more satisfactory, parents can also record different types of attitudes and facial expressions of parents and children through video recording, and then when the children have the most obvious experience, they will tell the truth of being late with video and audio in their hands, firmly believing that the children will not obviously dawdle at this time, because they will realize that they are incorrect because of strong feelings. Finally, parents apologize for their procrastination and children, and firmly believe that children will listen to their parents' truth under the friendly solution to the problem.
3. Praise the small details developed in the truth and truth with children. In addition to doing some personal actions to consolidate their own truth, including changing the attitude of speaking and the natural environment of speaking, parents will also praise their children's small details in a reasonable way. For example, children brushing their teeth and gargling on time every day will also reduce the frequency of eating sweets recently, so parents must praise their children in time. "Your teeth are well protected, and they firmly believe that the snow-white natural tooth is that one."
Praising the benefits of children's small details, on the one hand, encourages children to continue to strive for perfection, on the other hand, makes children realize that good habits have damaged their dental health. Reasoning with children is not just as simple as saying a word. Let children realize the necessity of reasoning through behavior changes and move in the direction of reasoning. This is the true meaning of reasoning between parents and children.