China has had the traditional concept of strict education since ancient times, which is embodied in the following aspects: "Sticks make filial sons, strict teachers make noble disciples", and "If children don't fight, they will fail". However, there should be no misinterpretation and misunderstanding about strict education, and it is by no means a simple beating and cursing.

It is an indisputable fact that simple and rude education methods will not have good educational effects. Educating filial children simply by beating and cursing will make them distorted, autistic, bad at communication, grumpy, aggressive, indifferent and lacking in love. In such an environment for a long time, children will also have a strong rebellious mentality.

In short, simple and rude education methods will not work.

Simple appreciation education will not have a good educational effect. The education of "praise" and "praise" in school education will make children unable to understand themselves correctly and face up to their shortcomings. The "child-centered" education method in family education must also be corrected, otherwise it will not train talents, but "little emperors".

After such education for a long time, children will have a natural sense of superiority. They have never suffered setbacks and think that everything they do is right. Once they encounter difficulties and setbacks in society, they will be at a loss and lose their way.

Appropriate punishment is necessary, of course, the scale of punishment should also be measured, and the purpose of punishment is education rather than harm. Doing good will be appreciated, and doing wrong will pay for your actions. Only by letting children understand this truth can we cultivate people who distinguish right from wrong and have responsibility.