There is a famous educational rule in America, the Twenty-yard Rule, which mainly means that Americans pay attention to cultivating children's independence and leaving psychological space for them since childhood. Parents don't have to be around their children everywhere. You think you care about them, but children think their parents are too strict. Why not take care of the children and relax at the same time?

Give children a chance to reflect.

In the process of educating children, it is wise not to abuse or indulge blindly, but to give children a chance to reflect on their wrong behavior.

Allow children to have little secrets.

Everyone has the right to keep secrets. If children don't want their parents to read diaries, don't go against their ideas, respect their ideas and allow them to have their own secrets appropriately.