At this time, my heart was sad and guilty. It is my fault to criticize and hurt the hearts of Asiana's little friends. I quickly apologized to her and put her to bed. This incident made me deeply realize that no matter what problems children have, they can't be handled simply and rudely. Instead, we should ask patiently and guide correctly, otherwise we will blame the children wrongly and dampen their self-esteem.
Haining's story
There is a girl named Haining, with a round baby face, frequent eyelashes, big eyes and two small dimples when she smiles. She's cute. As soon as she hears music, she can move all over, and she has a strong sense of music. She is the main dancer in the class.
Children eat in kindergarten at noon, and they are good at eating, queuing and playing. The only thing that worries the teacher is the child's lunch break. The teacher told a story before the children went to bed, but she didn't listen. She only makes trouble herself. She got out of bed, threw her shoes under the bed for a while, then folded the quilt, stretched it out, and counted with her little feet up. Some children are asleep, but she doesn't sleep. Most of the children are asleep, but she doesn't sleep. Holding her and coaxing her, she finally fell asleep, and the teacher on duty also breathed a sigh of relief and gently put her on the bed. She sleeps so sweetly, blushes and pouts, and sometimes giggles in her sleep. Probably she had a good dream. However, when it's time to get up, the teacher wakes her up and she can play and cry everywhere when she gets up. She can't afford it. The teacher went to hug her, either by hand or by foot. Maybe at the same time, all the urine will spill in her pants. Then the teacher called her parents, and the parents rushed to deliver clothes, and the teacher hurried to change clothes for her ... Gradually, the teacher on duty had experience: after waking her up, whether she cried or not, first carry her into the toilet (our activity room and bathroom are integrated), first pee her, and don't spill urine in her pants. After urinating, the child won't wake up crying.
Now Haining is sensible. She eats by herself, sleeps by herself and helps her children dress, just like an adult.
Clean little hands-a small hand washing link
Washing hands is an essential part of children's daily life. In children's daily life, we often see such a phenomenon: three or five children are playing with water; Forgot to turn off the tap. Wait a minute. In view of this situation, I always remind the routine "do this and that" repeatedly, but the effect is always bad. Children are fun by nature and like novelty, but due to their age characteristics, their attention is easily distracted. But when you meet a favorite game, you will enjoy it. Therefore, teachers should choose content that is suitable for children's age characteristics and deeply loved by children, so as to stimulate children's interest in participating in activities.
So later, when I washed my hands, I joined in and read the "hand washing song" rhythmically: rubbing my hands, rubbing my back, rubbing my fingers in the seam, one, two, three, and shaking my hands dry. Now dry it with your little towel. My movements immediately attracted the children to learn from me. "Education in life and games" allows children to express their inner feelings through the performance of children's songs with changing rhythms, and can help them master basic life skills in a subtle way.
Although it is only a small hand washing, as long as we carefully observe and get close to the children's lives, you will find that a small move by the children is a good opportunity for us to seize education. Every detail in life needs our brains. We should create opportunities for children to experience it personally and turn education into the needs of young children. The formation of good habits is the foundation of children's success, which is of course important, but we should stand in the position of children and understand the formation process of children's habits. In this way, children can experience the importance of forming good habits and gradually turn this understanding into conscious behavior. It's just a habit of washing hands, and we have to consider a lot. To our relief, we feel that children have more and stronger independence while working hard.
Teachers should be caring people. Considering the interests of children's long-term development, we should not neglect the cultivation of good habits, but also participate in children's practical activities and experience their needs. The established conventional system should be adjusted at any time, and the educational methods should be changed to form a real cooperative inquiry interaction between teachers and children.
Small class composition: "old fool" and "little fool"
Thursday is the third day for Wang Jiahao, a new student in our class, to enter the park. This little guy is very adaptable. From the first day he came to our class, Jiahao was not unhappy at all. He naturally mingled with the children in our class. The teacher told him some basic requirements, such as attending class, going to the toilet, washing hands, eating and drinking water, etc. And Jiahao is also good at taking a nap. He fell asleep naturally without crying. After getting up from a nap this day, the children put on their coats and ate fruit. Only Jiahao didn't wear a coat. The teacher told him to put on his coat quickly. He said he couldn't find it The teacher asked him where he was. He said it was on the table.
I started looking for him. The whole dormitory activity room was searched many times. Our crib is double-decked I even looked under the bed many times and couldn't find it. This is really a strange thing. I didn't take the children out in the morning because of the bad weather. Later, I was worried that naughty children would throw Jiahao's clothes out of the window and look out from every window in the bedroom, but there was still no one. Later, Teacher Zhao asked if it was Jiahao. Jiahao wore a warm coat that was almost gray and a little dark green two days ago, and I was looking for it. Teacher Zhao found a red and black coat where the children put their clothes and asked if it was Jiahao's. He said no, he said his clothes had hats, but several children were sure that they were Wang Jiahao's clothes, but Jiahao cried and refused to let the teacher wear them for him. Miss Zhao was afraid that Jiahao would catch a cold and coaxed Jiahao to say temporarily. Children's clothes can't be found in the class!
At this time, I remembered to call Jiahao's mother to ask if she had changed clothes for Jiahao. As a result, everyone understood ... the child was dressed in red all morning, and I could still recognize the gray one. Jia Hao obviously wears clothes without a hat, but he must have clothes with a hat. Alas! An old fool and a little fool! For this reason, I am also rethinking that my observation is too careless. It is necessary to put my clothes more neatly during my nap to avoid such a thing. )
Babies Going to School —— Notes on Large Class Education
Today is the baby's second week of school. Lovely babies have adapted to the schedule of kindergarten, and the crying phenomenon has also eased. Occasionally, I can hear the cries of individual babies. I am especially pleased that the babies can be so good in just two weeks. I still remember that on the first day, our three teachers prepared many toys for the baby in order to reduce the baby's anxiety. However, our toys are not so attractive to most children. They are not looking for toys and companions in the classroom full of toys every day, but their mothers, fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers. As a result, there was a cry in the classroom, and I was told everything, and all kinds of care didn't work.
However, put yourself in the child's shoes. From a gentle family to a strange kindergarten at such a young age, I saw strange environment and strange people. How can they not be anxious or afraid? So, I try to communicate with them by hugging, hugging and kissing. Some children are stubborn and refuse to sleep at noon. Always take one in your left hand and one in your right hand, and you have to take care of others with your eyes and mouth.
For example: dressing children, tying shoelaces, kisses and hugs and so on. Always ask if you are thirsty, hungry and want to urinate ..... Let the child feel that we care about him and love him like a mother, and gradually eliminate his strangeness to kindergarten.
The new boy is not familiar with everything in the garden. I will be sincere, patient and caring, so that every child can feel at home in kindergarten, and teachers and aunts are like their own family. Give care and attention in words and actions, let children adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible, eliminate concerns about unfamiliar environment, and let children go to kindergarten happily every day.
Reflection on kindergarten teaching: crying is sometimes a good thing.
In the morning, the children all walked into the kindergarten happily. But Danny is not happy in his seat today. The children in the class came to talk to you, but you ignored me. I rushed over and asked you, "What's the matter? Why are you unhappy? " Before I finished, you began to cry sadly.
"It's my turn to share a little book with the children today ... but I forgot to bring it."
I said, "Never mind, the teacher forgave you. Remember to bring it tomorrow, ok? " You nod hard.
I commend you for paying so much attention to this little thing that you forgot to bring your little book.
Your crying is not because you are delicate, nor because you are timid, but because of a sense of responsibility unique to children. What children lack most nowadays is a sense of responsibility. Although the "book incident" is small, it reflects your serious attitude towards things from another angle. I was also inspired by it: to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, we should start from small things.
Apologize to Children —— A Case of Cultivating Education
I emphasize sitting posture in every class, but as a teacher, I don't. Fortunately, many "little teachers" gave me some advice on how to sit.
That day, I was writing educational notes. Because the bench was high and the table was short, I felt uncomfortable sitting, so I sat sideways and was seen by several "bright eyes" in our class. They came to me and said, "Teacher, you are not sitting right like this!" " ""Oh, which one is right? " I asked. So I seized this educational opportunity, took a small bench and sat in the front (or kept the original wrong posture), and then asked, "The child told me what I did wrong. What should I do?" "As a result, many children gave me advice.
In this matter, I played a little "cleverness" and used the topic to consolidate the child's understanding of the correct sitting posture at one time. But being smart is always smart.
Psychological research shows that children's behavior in early school age is particularly obvious in imitation behavior. So I'm thinking: our teachers and parents need to provide an atmosphere for their children, an atmosphere that helps them develop good behavior and moral cultivation. Then as providers, we need to pay more attention to our words and deeds and set a good example for our children.
If we cultivate education, we can also "sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things quietly." Realm, then how proud we should be!