Yun-peng Yue's low profile is well known. Modest and low-key, practical. Although the annual income is tens of millions, most of them are given to several sisters and brothers. Is such a person willing to cheat him? Yun-peng Yue also mentioned in an interview that many people called him after he became famous, and there were all kinds of abuse and ridicule, but Yun-peng Yue listened to Degang Guo and passed this stage in a low profile. Lao Guo used his experience to give his apprentice a good way to deal with it.

Brother Da Yi was praised by Shandong Satellite TV. From the initial fame, from provincial TV stations to counties and towns, it really won a lot of live and various praises. Shandong people pay attention to this. At first we praised you in various ways. If you become popular, you will have to go back to your hometown. Some people will question that Zhu Zhiwen is entirely on his own. Most people who said this didn't use their brains and didn't understand the process and behind-the-scenes of Zhu Zhiwen's fame. At a certain stage, Brother Tai really can't find himself. As a farmer, Zhu Zhiwen lacks a guide and a wife than Yun-peng Yue. At the critical moment, Xiao Ping Clay was awakened by his wife's slap, while Zhu Zhiwen was not persuaded by outsiders.

People's low-key modesty after success is from the heart, not the surface. Don't always stand on the moral high ground and blame others. Is the quality of farmers in Zhu Zhiwen Village lower than that in Xiaoyueyue Village? Don't think so, but advise Zhu Zhiwen to read more books, don't fall into the moral depression of when to repay kindness, and don't forget how and why he is angry, and who pushed you to the fire. The kindness of dripping water should be rewarded as a spring. More importantly, don't say that he is kind to others from time to time, thinking that everyone should remember your kindness. This is completely wrong. When you are not famous, or when you are famous, it doesn't matter how the villagers treat you. The most important thing is to ask yourself, have you changed?

That's because the famous Yun-peng Yue doesn't need grounding gas, but Zhu Zhiwen must! Just like Liu's hometown is in Suqian, they can develop with their own capital, which is their fundamental difference. Xiao Ping Clay is like solar energy. When there is the sun, it can generate electricity. In my hometown, Zhu Zhiwen is like a cake. Only baking pancakes at home can have that taste! Therefore, even if Zhu Zhiwen becomes a phoenix, it will make people drool! If he stays at home all day after becoming famous, he will not be Xiaoping Cray. If Liu becomes the richest man in Jiangsu and stays at home all day, even if Jiangsu people forbear again, their families will kick the door.

When the strength does not need to rely on the local spirit to eat, even if this person really lives into himself, it is beyond the local spirit. Just like Jia Pingwa, although he left his hometown to enter the provincial capital when he was young and wrote about his hometown experience, this did not stop his talent from absorbing the essence of his hometown in different places.

In fact, Zhu Zhiwen knows his way more or less and even likes it. This is his personal design after he became famous. When he leaves his hometown, the status and personal design of peasant singers will be greatly reduced. This is not to say that Zhu Zhiwen is not good, but the small farmers' conscious environment determines that he must be grounded to keep his aura alive.

If Zhu Zhiwen fell in love with Floss, and sang for the sake of singing, then the singing skill is no matter how good, and there are more or less no curious scenes and atmosphere. Even in the first-tier cities, the capital of Zhu Zhiwen can afford luxury houses, but people like to settle in their hometown, just like a chicken in the phoenix. Although you stand out from the crowd, there will always be jealousy between people, which will make people around you psychologically different.

This sense of contrast is to promote the resonance and interest of a larger scene, to settle in one's hometown, not to show off, not to be arrogant, but to stimulate a larger audience. The strong scene dislocation has always made people think that Brother Tai is really good. In fact, according to Taige's performance, Taige Zhu Zhiwen is really good. He has not forgotten his hometown, so he can live in peace!

Yun-peng Yue has a lower starting point. He was lucky enough to enter Deyun Society and become famous in the Spring Festival Evening. This is an opportunity that his hometown in Henan does not have. Like Yun-peng Yue, many people left their hometown and became famous outside their hometown! But few people don't live with their hometown. After all, Yun-peng Yue's hometown gave him nothing.

Yun-peng Yue's road to fame has little to do with the help of his hometown. Even many people don't know that Yue's hometown is in the Central Plains, which is different from Big Brother's. Big Brother's road to fame did not leave his hometown at first, but once he left his hometown, the significance and aura of by going up one flight of stairs, a peasant singer would not exist, and there would be no attraction for Shang Yan.

As we all know, Deng Xiaoping's noble man is his master Degang Guo, and Deyun Society is his blessed land. He grew up here, became famous here, and stayed away from home. After he became famous, people gave him a "loyalty", which was unswerving and did not need the support of his hometown at all.

After Pinkley became famous, he went back to his hometown to break corn. No one would think that he was a show, even if his strength didn't need to break corn at all. Brother Dayi's breaking corn and selling grain are more or less sideline and hobbies, although Brother Dayu likes the countryside and yearns for this kind of life.

But I'm thinking, don't you need to leave the track of your previous life when you become famous? Don't tell me that all your efforts and struggles are to stay the same? However, at this moment, there is a sentence worthy of reflection: all the initial departures are actually going back to their hometown.

However, Zhu Zhiwen's aura is more closely related to the local atmosphere in his hometown, and Xiaoping Clay does not need these sustenance and will not go back to his hometown for development. Xiaoping Clay is like solar energy, where there is the sun, it can generate electricity. In his hometown, Zhu Zhiwen is like a cake. Only when pancakes are made at home will it taste like that! Therefore, even if Zhu Zhiwen becomes a phoenix, it will make people covet, even if it does something good, it will make people red-eyed!

That's a good question

He was born in the countryside, became popular in middle age, and had a similar struggle experience, which was not easy.

Zhu Zhiwen, on the other hand, has been repeatedly exposed to various news, about "fans" coming to the door, about coming uninvited, and even borrowing money, but they feel justified.

In fact, during the period when Yun-peng Yue just became popular, people in his hometown called and invited him to attend banquets and dinners.

Yun-peng Yue can only crustily skin of head to participate in the beginning, in the face of a bunch of half-baked "friends", or even people who have never met before, can only cope with it with a smile.

I can't help it There are many people who are popular. Go ahead, I'm bored to death; Don't go, people say you have a big shelf, and when you are red, you will put all kinds of shelves.

Until one day, Yun-peng Yue couldn't stand it. He found Master Degang Guo and explained the situation.

Degang Guo told him: Don't go if you don't want to. No matter what, a person will be pointed at by others. We can never satisfy everyone. What you have to do is to keep learning and improve your professional level.

Therefore, Yun-peng Yue pushed aside these meaningless social parties, concentrated on his major and studied hard before he got rid of the psychological burden.

On the other hand, Zhu Zhiwen was looked down upon by everyone before he became famous, and the villagers laughed at him when they heard him sing.

In order to avoid everyone, he can only get up early, or even practice in the open field early in the morning.

However, no matter how rich and famous Zhu Zhiwen is now, he still hasn't left the village where he grew up.

Different from Yun-peng Yue, his practice is not forgetful at best, but at the same time, he gave up the opportunity to change the life track of himself and future generations.

It is also an opportunity for villagers in the same village to get close to him, attach themselves to him and use his fame to create benefits for themselves.

In other words, how others treat you is virtually your permission.

Morality can only be used for self-discipline. If we use our reason to ask others, not only will it not be recognized, but it will be considered as a moral kidnapping, and it is easy to stand and talk.

Of course, in addition to these internal factors, there are naturally external factors.

①: The teacher is famous and has a backer behind him.

Yun-peng Yue learned from Degang Guo and became famous. What's more, with the status of Deyun Society and Degang Guo today, Pingkelei's fame will naturally rise.

Moreover, his reputation is tenable, and others will not laugh at him because of his success and luck.

At this point, Zhu Zhiwen alone seems to have some wild ways. Naturally, it is easy to get into trouble and get no respect from others.

②: Continuous exposure rate

Zhu Zhiwen again fire, but also with the title of "grassroots" to become attached to Shang Yan. The heat is too high, losing the value of continuous excavation, and will only gradually become an ordinary person.

Yun-peng Yue has the platform of Deyun Society, and variety shows and film and television dramas can participate continuously to the maximum extent, so that there will be continuous exposure.

To say the least, even if one day he doesn't meet Shang Yan, take part in variety shows or play film and television dramas, the performance of Deyun Society alone is enough to provide him with a continuous stage, and that is exposure.

③: Manners and manners, moral cultivation.

A public figure should stay away from the public. First, he should remain mysterious. Second, he should not be disturbed by "fans" and have relatively free space. Whether he is creating or studying, he should accumulate and prepare for the next stage.

Obviously, Zhu Zhiwen can't do it. Just too busy dealing with the villagers. How can he continue to practice hard as before?

Yun-peng Yue, under the strict requirements and instruction of Degang Guo, will get better and better only if it is close to Zhu Zhechi. What kind of people are around you will gradually be influenced by it, which cannot be changed.

One is Yun-peng Yue, who is with people with certain moral cultivation, and the other is Zhu Zhiwen, who is with all kinds of people around him.

One is Yun-peng Yue, who keeps learning and contacting all kinds of books and discussing professional knowledge and culture with his teachers and friends. One person is Zhu Zhiwen. He always wants to take advantage without paying when dealing with people who are screaming and making noise.

The height of the future is self-evident.

Of course, the countryside is as good as the countryside, and farmers are as noble as farmers, but in terms of living environment and life trajectory, it is not at all a level.

Therefore, Yun-peng Yue is not regarded as an ATM because he has long-term vision, ability and confidence to do so. Most importantly, he can tell who should be close friends and who should stay away.

Even if one day Yun-peng Yue takes a detour, Master Degang Guo will take him back to the right track.

Zhu Zhiwen guarded the wealth, but slowly disappeared from the crowd and stood out from the crowd. Naturally, he will only become the object of constant demand from others. Most importantly, Zhu Zhiwen doesn't know how to refuse or leave.

It's hard not to feel dizzy in the whirlpool.

As far as fame and achievement are concerned, the younger generation of Yun-peng Yue is more powerful than Zhu Zhiwen. Of course, Yun-peng Yue is happier than Zhu Zhiwen, and he is more at ease with people and things around him.

Yun-peng Yue is with his wife.

Poor families who are also coming out of the countryside have completely different life experiences. Yun-peng Yue can be comfortable in front of his hometown elders, neither for mutual affection nor for himself.

Zhu Zhiwen, on the other hand, is "now" held by his hometown elders (borrowing money from him, not remembering kindness, kicking his door, making a small video of him to make a fortune, and calling him a "coward").

Zhu Zhiwen became the target of bullying by the villagers.

Many people laugh at Zhu Zhiwen as the villagers' "cash machine". The reasons can be summarized as follows:

1. They are on different platforms.

There is Deyun Society behind Yun-peng Yue, and his teacher is prodigy Degang Guo. On the platform of Deyun Society, if Yun-peng Yue doesn't understand life, then the operation team of Deyun Society will naturally take care of it for him. It can help him get rid of all kinds of "ghosts" that Zhu Zhiwen will encounter in his life.

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On the other hand, Zhu Zhiwen seems to be different. He comes from the countryside. Before he became famous, everyone in the village thought he was an irrelevant "loafer and poor man" in the countryside, so they despised him from the bottom of their bones, no matter how successful he was.

After becoming famous, Brother Tai still mingled with the villagers.

After becoming famous, he returned to the countryside. There seems to be no guidance for his future development. He stubbornly stayed in the countryside, and as a result, everyone flocked to live on him. He was dumbfounded.

Therefore, in the past, villagers praised him as "now" and still praise him as "now". This is a question of human nature, and it is difficult to make it clear in a few words. Many people say that Zhu Zhiwen's living with villagers is his weakness and sorrow, which seems to involve deep-seated social class problems.

Grandparents and aunts all make money by shooting his videos.

2. Yun-peng Yue left the countryside of Henan. If Zhu Zhiwen doesn't leave, he will always be the "cash machine" of the villagers.

I always think that when a person's wealth and reputation reach a certain level, he needs to live and develop in another environment, get to know people again and make friends. We can understand this as "birds of a feather flock together."

Think about it. If everyone admires Xiao Ping Kelei and lives in their hometown of Henan for a long time, according to Xiao Ping Kelei's life experience and way of doing things, there is a high probability of fighting with the villagers and the relationship will become extremely rigid.

When Yun-peng Yue returned to his hometown, the villagers all looked up.

For ordinary rural people, whether in Zhu Zhiwen or Yun-peng Yue, how well they are living now, and it is no big deal that they were born in the past. Since I can do it, helping everyone is not kindness and gratitude, but absolutely necessary for them.

Occasionally returning to the countryside is also to experience life, and he keeps a moderate distance from the villagers.

Therefore, people around Zhu Zhiwen take everything they get from Zhu Zhiwen for granted, and they lack gratitude and awe for the famous Zhu Zhiwen in their bones. If everyone understands this psychology, they will understand why everyone still lacks gratitude when treating Zhu Zhiwen as an "ATM".

The solution to this problem should be like this:

Zhu Zhiwen should learn from Yun-peng Yue, leave his hometown in Shandong and at least live in the county or city. According to their financial strength, they can go back and have a look during the holidays, give a red envelope to the rural elderly casually, and try to introduce some jobs to some children, that's all.

Wen was surrounded by villagers.

Zhu Zhiwen must be isolated from the villagers and have a condescending attitude, so that the villagers can understand that everything Zhu Zhiwen has done for them should be appreciated. Only in this way can Zhu Can Wenzhi get rid of "pain" and live a happier life.

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Whether you like it or not, believe it or not, people are graded!

People at different levels get along, and those who suffer must be rich and influential.

Villagers in Zhu Zhiwen can earn thousands of dollars from the beginning of this year to the end of this year. He stood there, singing two songs easily, making money that others can't make all their lives. The gap in his heart may be higher than Mount Everest. You said they didn't take advantage of Brother Tai!

Yun-peng Yue is richer and more famous than Zhu Zhiwen. He was not watched by his hometown people to make money because he was smart and kept a good distance from the villagers. Xiaoping Cray hasn't been home for several years, and he didn't rush to do it when he went back, so he didn't give his classmates and friends the time and opportunity to meet. On the contrary, it is more mysterious and respectful because of keeping a distance!

Zhu Zhiwen's ideological level is not enough, so he stays at home when he earns money. The ancients said that wealth is like a night outing. It's true. You bought me new clothes. But you can't stand in front of me and show off all the time. This is not the hatred of red fruit!

Brother Tai's staffing has always been limited, and now it's not up to him to decide whether he wants to or not. Many people in his hometown have parasitized him and lived by watching him live.

Do you believe that if Brother Tai dares to move and make the people attached to him lose their jobs, what bad behavior they will do! Taking a job is like taking your life, even if you originally gave him this bowl of rice!

It is natural for Zhu Zhiwen to invite people to dinner every day. If you don't invite them for a day, you will hate him! Yun-peng Yue is successful in his official career, but he won't even give you a chance to meet. If he can call him according to the phone number, he will answer and remember you. You have to show off for six months. If you can have dinner together again, your group photo can be basked in a circle of friends for a lifetime!

Xiaoping Cray is virtuous, grateful and generous, and has done many good things for his hometown. But he deliberately kept his distance from his classmates and friends, and there was a class gap. He doesn't play with you at all. What are the chances of making money by watching Xiaoping Clay live?

The inferiority of human nature determines the appearance of this result.

The best way to solve this problem is empathy.

If you change Yun-peng Yue and Zhu Zhiwen, Zhu Zhiwen was born in Nanle County, Henan Province, and Yun-peng Yue was born in Shandong County. Will the villagers' attitude towards them change?

People in Yuecunji Village, Nanle County will watch Zhu Zhiwen, kick his door and secretly broadcast his family. Yun-peng Yue will still have a high prestige in Zhulou Village.

In other words, the change of the process does not affect the result, and the dilemma faced by Zhu Zhiwen lies not in the environment, but in itself.

Briefly analyze the differences between George W Pinkley and Zhu Zhiwen.

There are many similarities, too. They all came from the countryside and suffered when they were young. With the help of nobles, they also have the talent to enter the big stage.

Difference:

1. Xiaoping Cray only 14 works in the north. The old people in the village only remember the simple little fat man who didn't have enough to eat and didn't wear well. By chance, he was worshipped under the name of crosstalk master Degang Guo, and grew from a clumsy apprentice to a pillar of Deyun Society through hardships. After becoming famous, he lived in Beijing, often appeared on the big stage and screen, became a representative of grassroots, was loved by countless people, and became the pride of his hometown people.

Zhu Zhiwen has always been a simple farmer living in the countryside, and he likes singing. People in the village often say that he is a little abnormal. At the age of 42, I participated in Shandong Satellite TV's "I am a big star", and later became the monthly champion of CCTV's "Avenue of Stars", becoming famous in one fell swoop. After I became famous, I didn't forget my duty as a farmer. Back home, I still raise pigs and farm, and be an ordinary farmer without a star shelf. The only difference is that I made more money and became famous.

Gentlemen, have you seen anything suspicious? Let me simulate the mentality of the villagers in Zhulou Village: Zhu Zhiwen, "doing nothing", makes money by singing. The honest man who used to make fun of anyone and was despised in his heart is now extremely poor and earns more money than anyone in the village. A Shang Yan is equivalent to the annual income of a family in the village.

The most important thing is that he went back to the village to pretend in front of our villagers. What should he pretend? Is to pretend not to forget the identity of farmers, not to forget the elders in my hometown. In fact, we are annoyed to see him. He is richer than us, but he still dresses like us in daily life. This is a joke. We're still getting back at us. You are so rich, why don't you move to a big city? Why don't you buy a car for each of us? Why don't you give us 10 thousand yuan each?

Now that you have made money and become famous, don't blame us for making money. I squat in front of your house with my mobile phone every day to broadcast live that you are a "big celebrity". There is a lot of traffic, and I can make some money. It's not my fault that your house is surrounded. Who made you famous and who made you earn money? You can't stand it. Move out by yourself.

How did I imitate it? So Zhu Zhiwen knows the psychology of his fellow villagers very well. He didn't want to move away from his hometown, so he had to put up with criticism.

The old saying is right, "Laugh without hating others". What I want to say is that sometimes distance can produce beauty and love.

Yun-peng Yue is from the countryside, and so is Zhu Zhiwen. Both of them have an annual income of10 million. Zhu Zhiwen made his debut in a talent show on the Avenue of Stars and became the audience's favorite big brother. Yun-peng Yue studied crosstalk for more than ten years under the guidance of Degang Guo. With the departure of Cao Jinyun and others, Yun-peng Yue and others also came to their own opportunities, praised by Degang Guo, and became the "Xiaoping Clay" that the audience liked.

After Yun-peng Yue and Zhu Zhiwen became popular, both of them were ridiculed, but the difference is that one lives in the countryside and the other lives in Beijing. As the saying goes, if you have money, you will not go back to your hometown. He has made a lot of money since he became popular. He still lives in the countryside, and everyone in the village is a little jealous. Since there were short videos, online celebrities and villagers often went to his house to shoot videos, but he didn't stop himself and became the ATM of the whole village.

It is often seen in the news that Zhu Zhiwen lent money to the villagers, and if the villagers don't pay it back, they think Zhu Zhiwen is rich. What happened when you gave me tens of thousands of dollars? Complaining that there are too few roads in Zhu Zhiwen. When he didn't deserve to co-produce the video, these people's interests were involved, and they immediately changed their faces.

Yun-peng Yue was born in 1985, a rural family in Nanle County, Henan Province. He has five sisters, and his father supports his family by selling steamed bread. He suffered a lot since he was a child. Yun-peng Yue didn't even graduate from junior high school, so he dropped out because he couldn't afford the tuition.

Yun-peng Yue later went to work in Beijing, worked as a waiter in a restaurant, and got to know Mr. Zhao Tiequn, a crosstalk performer. Yun-peng Yue learned crosstalk from Degang Guo because Yun-peng Yue was slow and clumsy. At the meeting of Deyun Society, they proposed to get rid of Yun-peng Yue, but Degang Guo refused. In front of everyone, even if Yun-peng Yue can only sweep the floor, I will leave him for life. Yun-peng Yue has always remembered it.

Fortunately, Yun-peng Yue finally succeeded. When he made money, his first thought was not of himself, but of his five sisters. He bought a house for his sisters and rewarded them. This is admirable, and no one dares to scold him for doing wrong. Yun-peng Yue is also very kind to his master. After his popularity, for a period of time, it can be said that Yun-peng Yue propped up the whole Deyun Society.

There is one of the most popular criticisms about Yun-peng Yue on the Internet:

Besides, Yun-peng Yue doesn't live in the countryside. She bought a house in Beijing with her daughter-in-law and children. She has been in Beijing and seldom goes back to her hometown. After his second Spring Festival Gala, Yun-peng Yue invited him to dinner every time he returned to his hometown. At the dinner party, some people spoke very harshly. They said, "You are a fool, too. How can you have such a good thing? "

Yun-peng Yue was very unhappy after hearing this. Then the master enlightened him. This is normal, and jealousy is inevitable. But you have to stick to it for five years. After five years, these things will not bother you any more.

Yun-peng Yue and Zhu Zhiwen have completely different ways to deal with it. One of them didn't even have the courage to refuse. As long as it is unreasonable, he will never promise Yun-peng Yue. After becoming famous, he kept a low profile and never used his hometown to hype anything. Besides, he really got here by his own efforts. Yun-peng Yue also made contributions to his hometown, but he rarely agreed to unreasonable demands. Great changes have taken place in the whole village of his hometown because of Yun-peng Yue. He built a love restaurant for his hometown primary school and was praised by the villagers.

But Zhu Zhiwen is different. Before he became famous, the villagers really liked him, as did the county and Shandong TV stations. When he becomes famous, these people will say over and over again that if it were us, you would be who you are today. This sentence is like a moral mountain. Even if Zhu Zhiwen is grateful for his life, they will not be satisfied. Zhu Zhiwen almost met the requirements of the villagers, even if it was unreasonable, he gritted his teeth and agreed. Zhu Zhiwen was suggested to call the police, but he said forget it. Keep him away from the countryside. Zhu Zhiwen won't go.

The folk customs of Shandong and Henan are very different. We can often see that Zhu Zhiwen was often disturbed by villagers, but Yun-peng Yue was warmly received when he returned to the village. In the final analysis, it is caused by different folk customs in different places.

Zhu Zhiwen is afraid to leave his hometown. If he leaves the countryside, he can't justly call himself a peasant singer. If he hadn't been a farmer singer, he wouldn't have earned so much money. Yun-peng Yue left his hometown, and he is still a famous crosstalk performer. How to make money, how to make money.

To tell you the truth, I'm quite disgusted with Brother Tai. I don't know why he has always been the victim in the news, but I just feel sick. Maybe I don't believe that people in the village are like this. I think there is more hype. I am a child in the countryside. Even though there are differences in rural areas, they have a lot in common. Although rural people love their parents, when they meet people who are particularly rich in the village, they just say a few sour words behind their backs and have nothing to do with others. I've never seen anyone blocking a door asking for money.