Parents should learn to communicate with their children and cultivate them step by step. It can help them think about life, think about life independently, and sum up past habits, which is of great help to improve their rebellious psychology. Encourage children to participate in various activities such as competitions. Different children have different sexual orientations.

In the meantime, parents should be patient with their children.

Rebellious children also have great emotional ups and downs. In the face of strong changes in children, parents must be patient. Doing so can also improve children's rebellious psychology. Children in rebellious period are particularly emotional. If this happens to children, parents must wait patiently. If the child cries loudly, parents should not worry, don't be upset, and be patient. Wait for the child to calm down and start communicating with the child. Sometimes, children's emotions may be negative, so parents should help their children patiently.

3. Find a suitable time to reason with your child.

Children who are in a rebellious period often deliberately oppose their parents, and parents should not rush to persuade their children to listen to themselves. Because parents are often angered by their children's words and deeds, and then they become very irritable, scold or beat their children. Parents should find the right time to communicate with their children, and it is best to reason with their children when both sides are emotionally stable. Parents should never think that their children are not sensible. In fact, a seven-year-old child can completely understand what his parents say and distinguish between good and bad. As long as parents insist on reasoning with their children, children will be subtly affected and gradually change their thoughts and practices.

4. Learn to give children positive praise and encouragement.

Children in the second rebellious period are very eager to be affirmed by others, especially their parents. Parents' affirmation is the best and most effective support for children, so parents should pay attention to it and give their children more timely and positive praise and encouragement. Increase children's self-confidence and self-identity. At the same time, pay attention to discipline in front of others, start to pay attention to saving face for children, protect children's self-esteem, and don't choose words improperly.

5. Open your heart.

When parents find that children's interests will affect homework, don't ban it immediately. It's better to know more about the situation. For example, accompany your children to the video game center, discuss their idols with your children, and remind you of what to learn and what not to learn. Only by entering the inner world of children can we get along more harmoniously. Parents and children get along well, and children will not resist.

6. Home-school communication.

This is an important part. Parents should support teachers' work, and teachers will give timely feedback to parents on their children's situation and work together to make their children grow up healthily and happily.