Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Our baby is in infancy in all aspects of physiology and psychology. For example, because the baby's digestive system is still immature, it is necessary to provide special food; Because the baby's bones and muscles are not well developed, it is necessary to provide special utensils and toys. Therefore, we need to understand the subtle changes in each stage of the baby's growth, so as to respect the law of natural growth of life in education, reasonably stimulate the potential of babies and optimize the environment for their healthy growth.
● How to take care of your baby's diet? Older babies can eat by themselves. He likes to grab things and stuff them in his mouth, but because he is very active, you should pay special attention to the safety of tableware, tables and chairs. The diet training in this period is to let the baby explore the skills of using tableware by himself. You just need to get him into the habit of eating intently and keep eating happily. Some babies don't like to eat, they always eat while playing. You might as well let him play for a while and tell him how long it will take to put down his toys for dinner. When eating, put away the toys and let the baby concentrate on eating. If he leaves the table before eating, you should tidy up the food and don't let him eat snacks. When the baby feels hungry, he will eat well.
● How to conduct defecation training? /kloc-babies after 0/year old can sometimes maintain their excretion habits for a period of time, but sometimes they will return to their original appearance: progress, stagnation and retrogression. Chaos is a baby's habit. Don't worry too much. Maybe one day he suddenly doesn't need to use diapers. Even worrying about trouble won't help. It is better to treat them with a normal heart. If the baby says he wants to go to the toilet, you must praise him happily! When the baby is praised, his mood will be happy, of course, he is more willing to show it, and he will naturally tell you when he wants to go to the toilet next time. On the other hand, if the baby can't control his urine perfectly, don't blame him in a hurry, which will only make him more afraid. A better way is to let him sit on the toilet regularly. At first, let him sit and play. After he gets used to it, let him practice defecating on the toilet. The habit of excretion needs to be developed slowly, so don't worry too much.
● How to bathe and undress your baby? Infants like to take a bath, and there is no limit to when to take a bath. Therefore, you can bathe your baby according to the specific situation at home, but it is best to have certain rules, such as going to bed every day or after taking a nap the next day. For the baby, if you bathe him happily, he will also feel that bathing is pleasant; On the other hand, if you are always impatient and rude to finish washing for him as soon as possible, it will make him hate taking a bath and form a vicious circle. Our suggestions are: we can arrange some reasonable "bath games", such as providing various equipment for playing with water (such as small cups and plastic inflatable animals); Let the baby play with the bubbles generated when taking a bath. Older babies can also give him a small towel to let him feel the pleasure of taking a bath. Maybe the baby will make a mess in the bathroom. It doesn't matter. Slowly, he will know how to control his movements.
It's not that easy to help the baby get dressed. More and more thoughtful babies will insist on dressing according to his model. Many times, he won't let you dress for him. In fact, at this time, he wants to learn to dress himself. Therefore, if the temperature permits, you can give your baby some time to try it on yourself. However, whether the baby is dressed correctly or not, you should encourage and praise him and let him feel the joy of doing it yourself. At ordinary times, you can also play the game of "dressing small animals" with your baby, so that he can understand the structure of clothes and how to dress them in the game.
● How to appease the baby?
Soothing the baby is an important course for the baby and you. By soothing the baby's body and words, he can gain a sense of security and self-confidence, which has a great influence on his infancy and future personality development.
(1) Older babies. Holding a baby is a way to appease the baby. The baby crying and hugging him will make him feel valued, and there will be no sense of loss and insecurity. When confidence is established, he will be more independent and cry less. Of course, don't hug your baby when he is crying, because there are various reasons for crying. Therefore, we must first understand the root cause of the baby crying. Is it hungry? Wet? Or what's wrong? Observe carefully and then decide how to deal with it according to the specific situation. Sometimes, changing the baby's comfortable posture will calm him down.
2 children. We often call the clingy child "Little Koala", and he always pesters his mother to hug him. If you have such a baby, it is usually because the baby is insecure about the environment. Try to meet his requirements, hug him, talk or sing in his ear to make him feel safe. You will find that as long as you hold him intimately for a few minutes, after he gets used to it, he can face everything confidently and independently!
Three children who don't want to be held. Some babies don't like being held after learning to walk. If they hardly hug him, they may start to cry. Usually such babies don't like to have physical contact with others when they grow up. If your child has this situation, you should respect his wishes and hug him when he wants to, otherwise don't force him too much. But what we need to do is often organize family members to play games together, such as "riding the wind and waves" and "lifting the sedan chair", so that the baby may "relax his vigilance" in his favorite games and become close to you.
● How to take your baby for initial interpersonal communication-
When you take your baby to relatives and friends, you must hope that he can get along with others generously and play with children. But sometimes it may not be what you want, and the baby just looks shy and shy. In fact, the baby is born with the ability to communicate with people emotionally, just to see if you give him proper inspiration in infancy. After the baby is born, talk to him as much as possible. When the baby is older, take him outdoors and play games with his peers. You can also carry a few small toys or snacks with you to encourage your baby to share things generously with his friends. Of course, first of all, we should set a good example for the baby and encourage the baby's positive behavior in time. Doing so will make the baby feel the happiness affirmed and appreciated by others. "stingy baby" will gradually become generous. Special warning to the parents of the baby: believe in the baby: every baby's development has individual differences. Therefore, you must not blindly compare your baby with other babies. You should always find your baby's progress and carry out targeted education. Believe in yourself: no one is born a successful parent, so we should allow ourselves to make mistakes occasionally on the road of groping for progress. I believe that we will become better and better in the process of continuous practice and revision.