First of all, father's strategy
My son is very dissatisfied with his work. He said angrily to his father. My boss doesn't care about me at all. I'll slap him some other day and quit. ? Father said:? I suggest that you thoroughly understand all the trade skills, business documents and company organization of your company, and even learn how to repair the glitch of the copier, and then resign. In this way, you regard the company as a free learning place. After everything is connected, you can walk away again. Is it not only out of anger, but also a lot of gains?
My son listened to his father's advice, sharpened his gun at the last minute, and even stayed in the office after work to study the method of business documents. A year later, the father asked about his son's job: You have probably learned it by now, so you are ready to strike the table and quit! ?
? But I found that in the past six months, my boss was impressed with me and recently entrusted me with a heavy responsibility. Now I'm the star of the company! ? The son said proudly.
? This is what I expected long ago. Father smiled and said,? At first, your boss didn't pay attention to you because you were not competent enough, but because you didn't study hard. Later, if you work hard, you will definitely be impressed. It is a common mistake that people only complain about the boss without reflecting on themselves. ?
Second, this is not a reason.
On the first day of the third grade, in the physical health class, the teacher hung a human anatomy map on the back wall. The names and positions of important bones and muscles are marked on the map. That painting has been hanging there all semester.
In the final exam, as soon as we entered the classroom, the anatomical map was put away. There was only one question in the whole paper: list the names and parts of the main bones of the human body. ?
We protested almost with one voice: we have never learned. ?
? Isn't that the reason? The teacher said with a smile, that knowledge has been hanging on the wall for months. ? We barely answered for a while, and then the teacher put away the test paper and tore it into pieces. ? Always remember. ? He suggested that we. Education is more than just learning what others tell you. ?
Third, if you are a teacher.
One day before reading, I went to the classroom to help. I saw a classmate lying on the table in the back row. I picked up a book and patted him on the back. He suddenly looked up and fell out. Why? I didn't sleep! ? I can't wait to get rid of him at once. At this point, the students don't know what happened between us. I tried to restrain myself, tried to keep my head cool and said with a smile. Then you say, what about the teacher on your desk? Oh, by the way, I heard that your composition is good. Please write an article "If I were a teacher". ? He didn't speak at that time, and I continued to patrol the classroom. After lunch that day, this classmate came to my office and said, teacher, I was wrong. I should not be so rude. ? I could see that he really repented, so I naturally forgave him.
Fourth, the post office? Irresponsible?
A girl fell in love with her teacher. Unable to extricate herself, she couldn't help sending a letter to the teacher. However, when the letter was put into the mailbox, the girl immediately regretted it: the teacher already has a happy family, and she is still so young. What will the teacher think after reading the letter? If classmates and parents know, how to face it? The more girls think about it, the more scared they are. So what? Is it hot? Our love was suddenly frightened by fear. In order to escape the robbery, she even thought of death. But as the days passed, the teacher's expression, as always, was still in class with a bright smile.
One day, while chatting with students, the teacher accused the post office? Irresponsible? His letters are often lost. Only then did the girl breathe a sigh of relief: was her letter lucky? Lost? Yes
A few years later, when the college graduate visited the teacher who had fallen in love with him and still respected him, the teacher gave her this letter that had been preserved for many years. Only then did she suddenly realize that she quickly stood up and bowed to the teacher. Thank you teacher! Thank you teacher! ?
Five, no burden
There is such a family, the son's grades are very poor, getting worse and worse, and once he was the last in the class. The father smiled and said with his son's test paper. Great, son, you won't have any burden in the future! ? The son asked in surprise. Dad, are you sick? Father said. Not sick, think about it, what burden does a person who runs last have? Don't worry that someone will overtake you again, but as long as you run forward, you will certainly make progress. ? My son was very happy when he was inspired. The second time, I got the 29th place in my class. The father saw his son's test paper and said excitedly. Great, son, you are more than ten places ahead of last time! ? The third time, my son got the 10 in the class, and my father said excitedly. ? Great, son. You're amazing! Only nine places short of the first place. ? In this way, no matter whether the child's grades are good or bad, the father always insists on positive encouragement and never scolds, but the child has undergone unexpected changes.
Six, you taught me.
One day, mother and children went to a building to do business. When they entered the hall, the elevator was entering. They hurried to catch the elevator. At this moment, an old woman came in from behind. The young mother instinctively stepped back and let the old woman enter the elevator first. At this time, the elevator was full, so the mother and daughter had to stand quietly at the door of the elevator and wait for the next trip. After that, I took the elevator again. This time, there were only mother and daughter and an old man in the elevator. When the elevator reached the first floor, the door opened, but the daughter standing at the door stepped back and said, "Grandpa, after you." ? Grandpa said: After you, son. Grandpa walks slowly. ? My daughter still refused to go first by herself, insisting that grandpa get out of the elevator first.
The mother stroked her daughter's head happily and asked? Why did grandpa get out of the elevator first? You just taught me! ?
What a pity.
American Mrs Steiner is a famous early educator. One day, the child asked Mrs Steiner: I want to go to my classmate's house to play, can I? Mom said: Yes, but you must come back before 12. ? But the child arrived home 20 minutes later than scheduled. When Mrs Steiner saw the child coming back, she said nothing but pointed to the clock on the wall. Knowing that he was late, the child immediately said apologetically. This is my fault. ? After dinner, the child changed clothes quickly, because she goes to the movies with her mother every Tuesday. At this time, Mrs. Steiner showed the child the clock again and said, it's too late today, and we can't watch the play or the movie. ? The child shed tears sadly. Mrs Steiner didn't stop there, but said something very regrettable and intriguing: What a pity! ?
In the face of the child's fault, although Mrs. Steiner only said a few words and didn't take any other punishment measures, she made the child understand a simple truth: if the mother's request is correct, you must definitely do it, or you will pay the price.
Eight or four pieces of sugar.
When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal, he once met two students fighting. At that time, one of them was throwing bricks at each other. Teacher Tao Xingzhi stopped them in time and sent the students with bricks to his office. Unexpectedly, Mr. Tao asked the students to sit down, smiled and took out a piece of fruit candy and said, this is a reward for you, because I asked you to come, but you arrived before me. ? The students looked puzzled after hearing this. Then, Mr. Wang took out the second piece of fruit candy and said, this is also your reward, because I told you to stop, and you stopped at once to show your respect for me. I should thank you. ? The students are even more puzzled after listening. Teacher Wang took out the third candy and said that the student you were fighting with was a student who often bullied female classmates. I pay tribute to your chivalrous spirit. ? By this time, the students were already crying: anyway, sir, it is wrong for me to hit people with bricks. Mr. Wang took out the fourth candy and said, "You have realized your mistake. Should our conversation end here?"
Nine, pick at will
A school always fails to get good grades, so a famous education expert is invited to help the school find talents. The expert first asked the headmaster to bring all the teachers' lesson plans. He selected three teachers and said that they were the most promising teachers in the school. Then he randomly selected 50 papers from Grade One, saying that these 50 students are the best and have unlimited future. If these three teachers teach them, the school will work miracles.
Sure enough, three years later, the school became an instant hit, and all 50 students were admitted to key high schools. Shortly after the students graduated, the school received a letter from the professor: 3 teachers and 50 students were randomly selected by me.
Ten, beautiful hat
Susan, a handsome and lovely little girl, grew a tumor in her little body when she was in the first grade. She lost all her hair after chemotherapy. How cruel a bright head is for a 7-year-old girl! Her heart is full of pain and sadness. When Susan was about to return to school, her head teacher, a young female teacher, solemnly announced to the class: From next week, we will know all kinds of hats. All students should wear their own hats to school. The more novel, the better! ? The child doesn't know the teacher's good intentions. On Monday, Susan stood at the school gate but didn't go in. She was worried and hesitant because she was wearing a hat. To her great surprise, each of her classmates is wearing a hat. Compared with her classmates' hats, her hat looks so ordinary.
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