? First, there are many effective ways to educate children by example. The most effective and direct way is for parents to set an example. Because children live with their parents since childhood, the only people they can know and learn are their parents, so it is not wrong to say that parents are the people who have the greatest influence on their children's life. At this time, if parents want to educate their children to form a certain habit and cultivate their children to form a certain spirit, then they can follow their example. Practice what you say in your daily life. Children will take their parents' behavior as the norm when they listen, so they will start work? Follow the trend? Do things and solve problems according to parents' habits and methods, and parents' educational goals will be achieved.
Note that parents here don't tell their children anything important, but convey what they want to teach their children through actions. So this kind of education is? Subtle? Yes, it's the kind that moistens things quietly. Children don't know that they are being slowly guided invisibly. They are just doing the same thing as their parents. He habitually regards parents' behavior standards as the truth and the only answer, which has become the most powerful means for parents to influence their children.
Second, children make mistakes, and many parents just criticize them directly, which is actually wrong. Some children are young and have no concept of right or wrong at all. If you severely reprimand them, they will only become more and more afraid and even afraid to come near you again. Some children are psychologically sensitive and have strong self-esteem. A little concentration will arouse his disgust and even confrontation. From then on, they will only listen to their parents less and less. Because no one likes to accept criticism and no one wants to be accused by others, adults have a clear view of right and wrong and can restrain themselves from admitting their mistakes, but it is too difficult for children. For one thing, it's hard for them to realize this, and for another, even if he listened to what you said, it's impossible for him to face down and admit it willingly.
So parents might as well? Follow the trend? Replacing encouragement with criticism plays a more obvious guiding role and makes children more acceptable. For example, if they accidentally drop the bowl, parents can say: My son has another chance to sweep the floor today, and it won't be long before his mother is completely finished. Unemployment? Yes, haha. Parents directly avoid the child's embarrassment and self-blame through this teasing tone, and at the same time tell him to bear the consequences if he does something wrong through labor. Naturally, he will be more careful next time.