First, seeing the process of children's efforts, rather than just seeing the results, I wonder if you have heard the saying that this person can't afford to lose, so what is meant by not being able to afford to lose is that this person has a very big opinion, or he feels very unacceptable. It shouldn't be like this. I feel that he has made a lot of efforts, but he can't understand this result, and sometimes he may retaliate against society. Revenge on others like others, that is called can't afford to lose. Bian Xiao had seen such people before and felt terrible. Besides, what he did was extreme. How should parents educate their children? In the process of educating their children, parents must allow them to make mistakes and fail. You know, this process of failure and mistakes is the process of children's growth. Don't overemphasize the results, but also look at the process of children's efforts.
Second, calmly face the failure of children and guide them to learn to sum up. I hope parents don't pay too much attention to the results and ignore their children's efforts. If a child can't accept his failure, he won't dare to try in the future, because he won't fail without trying. Therefore, educating children is not that important. As long as they make 100% efforts, even if the ending is not so ideal, it is acceptable. You should know that parents' attitude towards winning or losing directly determines children's attitude towards winning or losing. Therefore, parents must be calm, help their children sum up, don't deny themselves because of failure, let their children believe in themselves, and they will be able to do it next time.