1. Establish a correct concept of family education. The concept of family education should conform to the law of children's physical and mental development and be conducive to children's healthy and happy growth.

(1) From the concept of "educating people with wisdom" to the concept of "educating people with morality". As parents, it is very undesirable to attach importance to children's intellectual education and ignore their moral education. Paying attention to children's all-round development is the success of parents' education for their children.

(2) Change from "paternalism" to "democracy". Parents should start from the child's point of view, enter the child's inner world, understand the child's thoughts and feelings, and treat the child democratically and equally. This will make children trust their parents more, be willing to communicate with them, be willing to tell them what they are talking about, and become bosom friends with them.

(3) Change from "experience" concept to "science" concept. When educating their children, parents should not only rely on their own experience, but also have a scientific outlook on education, success and development. Parents should be good at obtaining correct educational concepts from various channels. Only by being correct in thought can we correctly face and educate children in action and let them grow up healthily.

2. Create a good family environment. A good family environment is one of the keys to children's success. The so-called "good" does not mean how rich the family is, but that parents have created a good growth environment for their children. Parents should start from themselves and create a good family environment for their children's growth.

(1) Establish a warm, harmonious and cordial family atmosphere. A harmonious family atmosphere is an indispensable condition for children's healthy growth. First of all, we must do a good job in the relationship between husband and wife and family members. Secondly, handle the relationship between parents and children.

(2) Establish a reasonable living system. Some habits of parents in life and rest often become children's habits. Therefore, parents should establish a good living system for their children and make their children's lives regular. Parents should first get up and go to bed on time, scientifically allocate a day's study and rest time, and complete the housework shared by them. Secondly, pay attention to cultivate children's habit of falling asleep on time. It is necessary to cultivate children's habit of getting up on time. If children go to bed early at night and have enough sleep time, they will easily wake up the next morning.

(3) form a healthy and civilized family life interest. The cultural environment in the family has an extremely important influence on the growth of children. In daily life, parents should consciously cultivate civilized and healthy life interests, such as caring about current affairs, loving science, loving literature and art, participating in sports activities, and paying attention to cultural literacy and language civilization.

(4) Parents are the best role models for children. Parents should not only teach by example, but also set an example. They must use their own practical actions to influence and educate their children, strive to improve their self-cultivation, set an example, and ask children to do what they should do first. Only in this way can we improve their prestige, gain their trust and respect, and achieve good educational results.

3. Establish a friendly parent-child communication relationship. Parents should strive to create a democratic and equal family atmosphere and parent-child relationship, so that children can feel warm, concerned and, more importantly, respected and appreciated. Equal respect, empathy, active listening and friendly attention are the important cornerstones to open children's hearts and build a bridge between parents and children.

4. Cultivate children's sound personality. The main task of family education is to cultivate children's sound personality and let them learn to be human. If people can't do it well, it's hard to do well in their studies and there's no way to succeed in their careers. Some children have personality defects, such as prominent psychological problems, serious weariness of learning, weak sense of autonomy, weak tolerance for setbacks, low moral quality, rising crime rate and error rate, etc. These are the results of parents neglecting personality education.