In Saint Amethyst, China, people say that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach", and the German philosopher Fromm once said: "Father is one of the children's good teachers and friends, and he points out the way to the world for children. Although father can't represent nature, he represents the other pole of human existence, that is, the world of thought, science and technology, law and order, discipline, experience and adventure. " Dad should play the role of strict father in life, teach children to know the rules and principles, and have an independent personality.

Mom's experience is different from dad's. Motherly love often means more care and protection. In the process of children's growth, mother's education is mainly reflected in three aspects: First, positive interpersonal relationships. Second, the formation of emotional patterns. Third, the formation of gender consciousness.

Strict father's loving mother, a reasonable division of labor can ensure the good growth of children's body and mind.