Guided education is a combination of education and training, collective training, individual training and family training. The establishment of the International Peto Law Association has greatly promoted the development of instructional education and treatment. Guiding educational therapy has been adopted by most countries. In Europe, Japanese, Canadian, Israeli, China and other countries and regions, guided educational therapy has become the mainstream in the treatment of children's dyskinesia.
Guided education should pay attention to the following aspects:
1. Every child has his own personality and temper, so the way of guidance should also be taught in accordance with his aptitude, which varies from person to person. In order to provide the best guidance, parents should know their children deeply: understand their development stages to avoid setting unrealistic or inappropriate goals.
2. Be an observant parent, be aware of the emotions that children want to express in daily life, give sympathy and support to children's various emotions, and try to avoid denying, doubting or belittling children's emotions.
Children are best at imitating and learning, and parents can constantly enrich their emotional vocabulary by listening to their children's voices and repeating them. Especially when children are the most difficult to discipline, it is actually a good opportunity to understand and educate children.
Fourth, by sharing responsibility with children, we can establish an equal relationship of "sharing power" and mobilize children's internal initiative, rather than relying on external rewards to correct behavior.
5. The process of parenting is a process in which parents and children learn and grow together. Draw lessons from the practice of family life and the three chapters of children's Covenant, and jointly formulate family rules and abide by them.
The purpose of guided education is to create a family growth environment that is not suppressed and denied, so that children can express and experience their emotions freely and easily, and finally establish a self-confident and self-respecting personality system.